when life hits you hard

positively... At first of course i cried for a while, stumble, feel depressed but I know that in no time I'll be standing again. Loosing someone or something is part of life...you will gain from it by experience and knowledge... it will mold you to be more tough! Problems and trials are there to strengthen us, test our capabilities, and to open doors for improvement and realization. Either we loose or win, we gain knowledfge and strength for sure.. When things dont go in a way you expect it to be... charge it to experience.

Life can be very complicated and difficult. I do both, but I also understand that sometimes life IS hard, and we all have to face certain obsticles in order to better ourselves or our surroundings. Life is no fairytale. Life is not always a nightmare either. I believe if we take things a day at a time and try to face what comes to us, then in the future we will better ourselves and learn a greater lesson. I do wish I could runaway from my problems, but the fact is, facing them is much easier and yet difficult all at once.

I do both. Actually, during the most difficult times in my life, I just don't know where to go. The only lifeline I have is the knowledge that God is there and that He will never forsake me. It keeps me going.