Do we have time for ourself??
By unishwetabh
@unishwetabh (1031)
India
May 30, 2007 2:28am CST
I was thinking about how we spend our entire life in taking up new responsibilities on every step of our life. It goes like this......we are born and then as soon as we grow a little old we have the responsibility of studying so that we get into some good university. After getting into the university, it comes to getting the degree from there with good marks again to get some good job so that we start making some good earning. After we get a job, its time to marry and then take up the responsibility of our life partner. After that it comes up to taking the responsibility of our kids. Then after that we become old. Where did we live for ourself?? We never did anything that would count for ourself. Do you agree with it that life goes like this for everyone??
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@zalidatai (22)
• Malaysia
30 May 07
Actually, we have. Love yourself before you love anyone. May be you think that you spend mist of your time for someone else, but in the same times, you spend that times for yourself too.
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@unishwetabh (1031)
• India
30 May 07
Its like the Newton's Third law......"Every force has an equal and opposite reaction." I think this is what you are saying. You do your work for someone but it is actually for yourself. Right??
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
30 May 07
no I don't agree,
when you go out with your friends, to a movie, a dinner, a dance, a vacation, a yoga class, an art class outside of school, a sports game,
a long bath with a good book, going to the beach, sunbathing in your back yard, gardening,
playing on the computer,
singing in a choir,
having tea with a friend,
reading a book that has nothing to do with work or school,
watching tv
listening to music,
jogging
taking a nice walk by yourself or with your dog,
you are doing things for yourself.
there are so many different ways to do things for yourself.
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@unishwetabh (1031)
• India
30 May 07
I might sound negative........but we do all these things to relax ourselves from the daily duties we have to follow.
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@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
2 Jun 07
I would have to agree with this theory that we are always so busy with others that often we don't have much time for ourselves and the more you have going on in your life the more chaotic it is going to be .
I know it is hard to get time to myself when there are seven of us living in the household and there is always someone visiting and staying with us .
We have five children and they each have things that need to be done so between getting one thing done and driving them here and there , it does not leave much time to myself but I wouldn't change it for anything in the world .
I do think that we get the chance to do something that would count for ourselves though and even if we don't have the time to do it for ourselves then someone else will do something nice so we do get some time , even if not a lot of it .
@unishwetabh (1031)
• India
2 Jun 07
Well thanks for sharing your experiences here, so in total 7 of you are there in your family. Thats a big family you have. Best of luck to you and your family.
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@kelly60 (4547)
• United States
4 Jul 07
Life can be like this, but doesn't have to be. Even though you may spend your years like this, it doesn't mean that you have to spend all of your time within these years like this.
I know that when my kids were small I felt that I had no time to myself. I found that I had to take a little time for myself once in a while in order to be a better parent to them.
The same is true of anything. No matter how much you love your children, your husband, your education, your job, or whatever, taking a break to do something for yourself once in a while will do wonders for you.
@madhuri567 (302)
• India
2 Jun 07
If at the end of life we see back at wat we have done to our family or country or friends..If yur satisfied yu forget all..
Enjoying with frnds,family,studying attaining knowledge these all are done for our cause only...
I can say i have time for myself to make new frnds,study,take care of my family,my lotting..and many more..arent all doing for themselves are they studying for others...are they doin job for others...are they seeing others kids...it's all part of life.......
Life goes like that..it's the nature of it..
Go with life..others will come with yu
@unishwetabh (1031)
• India
2 Jun 07
So basically you are trying to say that whatever we do, it is indirectly for the benefit of ourselves....right??
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