how often do you say"I love you" to your lover?

China
May 30, 2007 4:01am CST
I am a conserved girl and I observer our tradition,so I am not good at expressing my love by words"I love you",so I seldom say it to my lover.and so does he.I feel too shy to say these words,so I can just write it in my diary.what about you,do you have the same feeling with me?
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18 responses
@el_jeffo (750)
• Philippines
30 May 07
I say "I love you" a lot to my girlfriend because I really do, and no matter how many times I say it I still am not able to truly, really express how much I love her.
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• China
30 May 07
actually,I know if I love one then I should tell him that I love him.but I can not just say these words,haha.
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• Malaysia
2 Jun 07
Awww... I think that's really sweet! She's a lucky girl~! ;)
@banta78 (4326)
• India
2 Jun 07
I feel your girlfriend must feel special to have a boyfriend so in love with her. good luck to you both.
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@wm69love88 (3466)
• China
2 Jun 07
Because I am a sensitive person and I don't hide my emotions.I like to expressing emotions to my lover.By the way, Body language is used to communicate attitudes and feelings.
• China
4 Jun 07
yes,body language is a good way to express our feelings.
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@maumbi (2569)
• Indonesia
2 Jun 07
about this, i cant count how much, every time and everywhere WHEN i meet her. the problem is not how often i love you word we say to our lover but HOW OFTEN we say "I LOVE YOU DAN and MOM"? anyone can answer.....
• China
4 Jun 07
yes,I have never said "I love you" to my parents too.
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@banta78 (4326)
• India
2 Jun 07
Well i feel it is good if we express our love to our beloved as often as possible. Since if we don't communicate our feelings to our lover how the hell will he or she know that we really care for them. And everybody likes to hear the 3 magical words i love you said to them. it does make one feel wonderful, and is the least one can do for one's lover.
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@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
30 May 07
I always say it to her everytime we're having a conversation on phone, on lunch / dinner, bedtime, almost everytime. Well, it's such that i feel happy when i say those words to her. It seems like it strengthens ourselves to be more closer to each other.
• China
30 May 07
thank you,I think maybe I should try to do this in the future.
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@happymom1 (1179)
• United States
31 May 07
I always say i love you to my husband and he is very happy of that. When we are in the house, in the car or somewhere. Its nice to say i love you to the one that you love. Its just like a chocolate that you want some more and more.
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• China
31 May 07
just let me see,if I hear my lover say these words,then I think I will feel very happy too.lol
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@samson1967 (7414)
• India
30 May 07
Keep saying I love you to your partner to increase the love bondage and happines between you. We say that to each other often and our love is very strong.
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@itkasp (266)
• Australia
31 May 07
My husband and I always say i love you to each other every morning before we go to work. Sometime I also send an email to him just to say i love you. I think it is important to express/say our love to the love one.
• Hong Kong
6 Jun 07
I used to think like you. But as I get older and I notice life is shorter. The most thing I am afraid that I would regret when life ends would be I haven't told my loved ones "I love you" enough. So now, I tell my lover "I love you" whenever I feel that he needs to hear it or whenever I want to express my appreciation and love for him. I think if you don't feel comfortable saying it, you can write it in letters or in cards and give it to him. I see it as a traditional romantic acts.
• China
6 Jun 07
yes,you are right,life is so short,no one can know when life will end,so I think we should express our love often.on his birthday,I said "I love you" to him.
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@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
30 May 07
I am also like u... Used to be... Coz i dun express out my love and likes easily... But i realised its good to let out ur feelings out... i guess its good to let ur partner knows ur feelings.. everyone needs to be reassured... its good to hear ur partner saying i love u once in awhile. so i guess u should do the same... i came to realised saying such things doesnt kills, instead it makes both of u happy... dun be stingy with i love u, i miss u and give lotsa hugs and kisses... =)
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• United States
2 Jun 07
I can't help saying it all the time because the feeling consumes me so much - the words just fall right out whenever I see him. :)
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@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
2 Jun 07
Not really.. I feel that when I love someone very deeply, I should not keep it to myself. I should tell him how much I love him so he knows how I truly feel. But sometimes in today's world, saying 'i love you' is said one too many times that it doesn't really feel special anymore. It's kinda good to keep that tradition between you too so when you hear him say 'i love you' to you, it really means a lot. But don't keep it in yourself too much though.. hehe.. =)
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@jackjoin (77)
• China
2 Jun 07
i never say "i love you "
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• Philippines
2 Jun 07
I usually express to my partner what I feel because both of us were open to each other. I have no hard time in saying "i love you" w/ him.
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30 May 07
My bf and I always say I love you to each other even through text messages.
@youless (112595)
• Guangzhou, China
30 May 07
I don't often say to my husband that I love him. But my behaviors already betray me:)
@cocuta (30)
• Romania
30 May 07
i say this word very rare, we use a nickname for this word, we personalise it with the word BUHU, i love say tis way, i love you it's banal for us, it is use very offen by others :d
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@jogie_bien (1103)
• Philippines
30 May 07
i always say i love you to my loveone almost everyday.
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