Where do you think a newly couple should live?

China
May 30, 2007 5:20am CST
Have you got married?Where do you live ?Living with your parents or on your own?I think a newly couple should live on their own if possible.Generally speaking,young people usually have different thoughts from their parents.So when the young do something,sometimes they have to consider the feeling of their parents.They should make sure that what they do will not make their parents feel uncomfortable or angry.If they always do whatever they want and whatever they like and care for nothing about their parents' feeling,it might cause contract ,even a quarrel.As a result,young couple may not have enough freedom to do what they want.What's more,the relationship of the family may be broke up.That's what I think ,what's your opinion about this question.Please share your idea with us .
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huilee
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
30 May 07
I am not married... But i always think that i dun want to live with my in-laws... Coz i believe in time to come, there will be some tension... Sometimes u just want to slack and yet they are always there watching... I think its not very nice... I dun wanna be arguing with them either... So i rather have a own home and family... Living under the same roof can be truly tough...
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samson1967
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
30 May 07
New couples must live seperately from parents in order to shoulder the responsibilities and understand the world.
thunderstrike
@thunderstrike (21)
• South Africa
30 May 07
but again, they should not to go very far where yoy'll have to travel for days before you get there. Lastly no-one is perfect, sometimes we need a sholder to cry on and advices; what i know is that no parent will let his/her daughter or son down or give wrong advices.
velvetprinzess
@velvetprinzess (1064)
• Singapore
30 May 07
I think this really depends on their circumstances. If they are living on a tight budget, then they might have to consider living with their parents. This might also be a good arrangement if both parents are working and if society doesn't really have ample support for young parents in terms of having adequate childcare. Living with their parents would mean that their young children can be taken care of properly while they work. However, if they have enough money and enough child support, they could consider living on their own.
easyzheng
@easyzheng (666)
• China
30 May 07
If possible, a newly-married couple should live on their own because it can avoid conflicting with parent-in-laws and they can learn to live independantly, as well as enjoy their two-person-world freely. But if the parents could not live without you, then you also have the responsibility to take care of them or to live with them. It's also the young couple's duty to learn to come to good terms with a big family.