Teen girls dating older men

Well,yes,there are so many teen girls who like dating older men.Some of them go for their money.Cuz there are so few successful younge men.So these girls dating older men to have a better life.Others go for older men's mature.It is a little stange,but these girls are attracted by older men's mature.Even these guys already have their own families.Some of the guys do not have much money,some even broken.But they use their mature,their experience in relationship to cheat those teen girls.This is really bad. So those who have daughters must be cautious.Tell them the truth faces of those guys.

I dont have a teen or a daughter, but did this as a teen. I ran into some bad situations, including getting married at 17 to a 28 year old. If I had a teen I would be SO upset if she did this and I would make sure she knew my concerns and why I felt the way I did. I think it's a pretty serious thing and more people should talk to their daughters about this. Teens rarely see the dangers that could be waiting.

I was one of these teens. When I was 16 I dated a man who was 27. I ended up pregnant and he left never to be heard from again. At the time I thought my mother was a mean uneducated wholly-roller that was only trying to stop me from having love and a life. Boy was I wrong!, I wish I had listened to her. I was faced with this same situation not too long ago with my oldest daughter. She knew what had happened to me (it was her father that left me when I was 16) and I explained how rough it was and I really hoped she wouldn't make my mistakes. She said almost the exact same things I did to my mother. In the end I let her go her own way with the warning that if she did this against my wishes she would never be able to come back to my home and live. Tough love is so hard at times. It just about killed me to see her make my mistakes all over again. Lucky she didn't have a child out of the deal. I made mistakes in my parenting of her but I learned from those mistakes and can honestly say I won't be repeating them again. So when my other daughters reach the age of boys it will be a firm no and if I have to I'll lock them up lol. But honestly I think that young girls that date older men are actually looking for a father figure. If there is a good man in their lives (father or father figure) they are less likely to search for that type of love.

I guess that would depend on the age of the young man and the relationship that you have with your daughter....while a few years seem like a lot when they are young....it does not seem so distant when thwy are a little older.... For instance...my husband is 10 years older than me...if I had met him when I was 15 my mother would have had an absolute fit....but when we married nearly 20 years ago the age distance was not that far apart.. I hope that this makes sense.... I know that you are close to your daughter...so your judgement will be the correct one... Good luck with this, my friend.

Well, my daughters are too young to date, but as a Dad, I know I'll have a problem with them dating anyone. Especially if they are older; however, that's where the missus will politely remind me that we were 7 years apart and we were 18 and 25 when we married. Regardless of age, I hope to have taught my daughters enough to avoid dangerous situations and recognize when enough is enough. These situations are just as dangerous if the guy is younger or older.

i don't older guys.. about 3-5 years older.. :D other than that, it's a no no..

How old is this older man? 40? Well, teenager dating a 40 year old man, I think, is not a good thing. Even such marriage may not really work cos the father figure kind of thing will surface. I am not married and so I have no daughter but if things like that happens to my sister I would be disappointed.

I thinkit should not be a problem so long as ther eis a respectable age difference between them and they are both atleast with in 4-5 yrs but a 30-40 yr old male or female dateign a 13-17 yr old i have a real problem with as the teen has not had a chance to grow or develop into an adult.

I think It's alright :)