When Does Love Becomes COMPLICATED?

Philippines
May 30, 2007 8:19pm CST
It just concerns me because i have seen a lot of friendster profiles stating in their status as "It's complicated". When does love becomes complicated? can you site some situations??? Is love really "complicated"? Or is it us, human, who are complicated by nature??
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• United States
31 May 07
I have been in a relationship with my fiancee for going on 6 years now and believe me there have been times when it has been COMPLICATED. It's just mostly misunderstandings or lack of communication in the relationship. Uncertainty of where the relationship is going or if it's going to work at all. When you first get in a relationship you don't really know the person. After dating awhile or moving in together you find out there are some things about this person that you don't really like. That's when it gets complicated. Now this is when you either work it out or move on. In my relationship, we have broke up countless times because we couldn't agree on this or that. He even moved out and got a place of his own. If you really love a person you have to learn to compromise. That was a big problem with us, both bull headed and always had to be right. We have come a long way and are closer than ever before.
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• Philippines
31 May 07
very well said.. well i guess things are just complicated when both of you are still in the getting to know each other process... in my case, i'm confused if whether i should stay single or go steady with my suitor.. but that i think is a different question.. :D
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
31 May 07
hhmm..on my own points of view..life or love is not complicated for we are the one who are making those things complicated.. i guess those people on friendster whose status are complicated are those people who have special someone in their heart but hav'nt decide yet if they'll gonna go for what they feel or not.?or they have special someone but they are not committed to each other or what we called "mutual understanding". i also have this kind of situation,but i rather have to choose the single status so that people won't get confuse..(just like you..hehe!)..see?..that's very easy..i didnt choose my status to be more complicated.. hhmmm...its your choice if you'll make things complicated..God made our life simple..but because of the things that we are doing with our life..it makes our life more complicated.. by the way..can i be included on your friendslist on friendster?..here's my email address..charly00perez@yahoo.com..hope to see your name on my friendslist..thanks!
• Philippines
31 May 07
huh?what ows???.....
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• Philippines
31 May 07
i am only human..nkkramdam dn aq ng love..
@rikki8 (392)
• Philippines
31 May 07
Being complicated is a 'state of mind' not a situation. If we manage ourselves well, we can manage situations as well. Humans in itself is not complicated..its what humans do that are.
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