is it wise to reunite with your exhusband or to stay away..
By arekha72
@arekha72 (56)
Philippines
May 31, 2007 8:13am CST
my exhubs impregnated his live in partner for 3 years now. when he saw us (my son and myself) lately looking good and in good shape and without me having a bf.. he wanted us back. but i am haivng a hard time at first in dealing with it, but it's heaiver now not to go back with him, bec i can still refresh those moments with him that it was a hell living with him.. but he is willing to make it up and so sorry for what happened. what is the best thing for me to do..
2 responses
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
31 May 07
well, I know things seem a little different now because it has been a while, but Just try to remember why you brok up in the first place. And then try to evaluate him, see if he has changed any, and ask yourself if that is something you are willing to live with the rest of your life...Just do not rush into anything, take your time with it scope him out again, and if he cant wait, then it isnt worth it, otherwise if you think you both have changed enough that the reasons you broke up are no longer in existence or have dwindled down enough to handle it. But a lot of times people will romanticize the situation with an ex, and then get into another relationship and say, "Oh, yeah, now I remember." Just take your time, feel it out and make sure it is a good decision.
@arekha72 (56)
• Philippines
31 May 07
right. and it's great to have a clear mind to do things fairly this time. and i guess, his intentions snt realy real bec. he only put it tru text and not in person. so i guess, he was just threatened since he impregnated that girl. which i could sue them. but, i have no more room for such thing as that. all i am trying to focus on is for the financial support for my son. and it's a great thing to have a clear mind to be able to "think" about things a million times esp such decision as this. thank you..
@annettenasser (2992)
• Kuwait
24 Nov 07
The best thing to do is to go away, why? he likes you only when you look good and healthy? how about the responsibility and dignity? he doesnt know about it?
