How can I put things right?
By cobrastyle
@cobrastyle (26)
Canada
May 31, 2007 10:42am CST
Someone want to help with a little problem I'm having.
Alright so me and my friend were really good buds. We did stuff after school went to movies all that good stuff. She always talked to me and was always really happy.
Then after march break it all changed. We got back from the break and whenever I passed her in the hall she didn't really say hi. I would sit beside her and she wouldn't even say anything. So I decided to talk to her and all of a sudden she was normal again. She was happy and talking but she kept ignoring me or not talking to me. When I talked to her thingswere fine and if I didn't she'd ignore me.
So I asked her about it and she said nothing was wrong and it was all fine. So I thought alright. Next day she still didn't talk to me unless I talked to her.
That night I asked again what was wrong and she said nothing but
I kept pushing. She finnaly said she thoughtI had been acting differently since the break and it made her not want to hang around with me. The reason she talked to me she said was because she thought if she talked to me it would make it better.
I asked how I was different and she just said she thought I was acting like a poser and gave some bad examples of how she thought I was trying to get attention. It didn't make sense.
So I stopped talking to her. A few times since then I've said it was all stupid and I wanted to be friends again and she would agree but she still didn't talk to me and when I talked to her it was like she didn't really want to talk. So then I'd stop talking again then she'd all of a sudden start talking to me again and want to be friends. I would agree, she'd stop acting like she cared, I'd stop talking, she'd want to make up and so on. Its gotten really stupid and annoying and last time she wanted to talk I acted like I didn't care. She said she wanted things to be like they used to and we needed to have another talk sometime....we haven't really talked at all since.
I dunno whats wrong, why this all started or if I should even try and fix it anymore. The time we were friends was great but its so annoying all this stuff.
You guys are all smart!
WHAT DO I DO?!?!
Thanks!
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