It HURTS me a lot !!!
By siti_mardia
@siti_mardia (11)
Malaysia
June 1, 2007 7:53am CST
I've known a guy from the internet and we are friends for 7 months. During that period, I found out that he's everything I ever wanted. And now, we are couples..
We've been going out, and so far, he's done nothing bad to me.
However, my parents forbid this relationship due to my age ( im 22 ), as this is my last year in university they want me to concentrate on my studies, im not working yet, and another reason is that we meet on the internet. They don't want me to have any relationship right now.
Me and my parents, we've been through lots of disagreement whenever this topic arises. Though my parents insults my bf a lot, yet, he's still giving his best to impress my parents. And now, we are not allowed to see each other and this, really hurts me. Only patience that keep me and bf together until today.
Was your relationship as misfortune as mine? Or, even worse? Would you like to share it?
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3 responses
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
I know it is very hard to decide if you are in this kind of situation. Your parents are really concerned to you. They do everything for you and that they decide the best for you. Love can wait, so there is no reason to worry about. If your boyfriend really loves you, then maybe you and your bf can wait for the right time. I admire the braveness and courage that your bf is showing, and I am pretty sure he will do everything for you. Let me give you some advices. Your parents knows best for you. If they think that it is still not the right time for you to be engaged in a serious relationship, then you should probably obey them. It is nice that you are ready to any circumstances that might happen, especially if you are in a relationship. As for now, you have to concentrate in your studies because in the long run, you will still be the one to benefit from it. I know that it is really hard to do all these things due to the fact that you loved so much your boyfriend, but you have to consider also the disadvantages of it. The decisions will still be yours and I am hoping the best for you. Follow your instinct and heart. Follow what is right.
Have a nice day! God speed!
@smacksman (6053)
•
1 Jun 07
Yes it does hurt.
Maybe the answer is to continue to correspond with your friend till you are finished uni and gain your degree. It is only a few months and a short time in your whole life and your parents are correct in saying that your studies are important.
I hope it works out for you.
@siti_mardia (11)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 07
It was nice of you... thank you... one day, hope everything goes well
@subha12 (18441)
• India
25 Sep 07
Its very sad experience i must say.
Actually what is the problem with your parents?
It may be your last yr at university, but is it hampering too much of your study?
If not, ask them frankly, what is their actual problem?
But when BF is giving true effort, he really loves you.
You must talk with him also how you can keep this relationship alive.
