A Crash on my Teacher
By xinxin
@xinxin (28)
China
June 1, 2007 10:36am CST
I have a Crash on my teacher who have already been married. I always feel nervous when I am with him. This is not what I want, but what can I do?
The Buddha says: It takes 500 years for people to acquire a chance of sharing a boat, and 1000 years of sharing a marriage bed. Then who is the right person that will share his life with me?
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@TinaCL (429)
• United States
1 Jun 07
Awww that's a bad situation to be in. Having a crush on your teacher can be very problematic--teachers are required to maintain a certain level of professionalism as part of their job. It would be unethical for him to have a relationship with you--it could interfere with his ability to be objective. Since he's married, it's even more problematic! I had a crush on my German teacher in 10th grade--of coulse I didn't do anything about it, but it was still very hard to be around him.
If I were in your situation, I would just go out, make lots of friends, and meet new people. Getting out will help you forget about your teacher. You might even meet another guy.
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@RosieS57 (889)
• United States
1 Jun 07
Wow that's a lot of years! A crush is an infatuation. It's a passing thing based on externals.
Love has always surprised me and taken my breath away. It has snuck up on me when I wasn't looking for it.
There's a song that has ben covered by quite a few artists. I find that it is true: "You can't hurry love, you'll just have to wait. Love don't come easy; it's a game of give and take."
As difficult as it might be try to breathe deeply, sit back and relax and wait for love to find YOU!
@augusta123 (6649)
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29 Aug 17
Don't worry ours is on the way, just let your teacher go,he's already taken.See yours soon
