Lacking of Love
By jianhong
@jianhong (739)
Singapore
June 1, 2007 10:45am CST
Omg, i have this feeling again. I feel a empty space somewhere in my heart and need someone to occupy this space. Whenever, i see couple outside so lovely this feeling comes to me again. I feel happy for them too. Hai.. I am lacking of love i guess. A little depressed too. You know what i mean right, those BGR stuff.I have been single for very very long time or should i say i have never been in a serious relationship in my life. Anyway, i am just suck at BGR. What should i do? Any suggestion?=/
7 responses
@clamee (63)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
good for you that you've been in a relationship (be it serious or not) but me?...NBSB(no boyfriend since birth)
if you want a partner you socialize, meet new friends..that's one of the ways..^^
if that doesn't work just wait..don't worry love would just knock at your door..remember love comes when you least expect it..;)
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@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
3 Jun 07
I think you should make up your mind and YOURSELF first.
I mean, how will you be able to love others and get into a serious relationship without knowing what you want out of relationship and what you want and don't want in a girl??
It is true that you should learn how to LOVE yourself first before loving others. Why? So that your love for others wouldn't have any marks of selfishness...
In that way, you wouldn't feel this "lacking of love" situation co'z you have a healthy self love and you wouldn't just bump into relationships that doesn't fit what you wanted :D
Take this as an advice from your net friend :D
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
3 Jun 07
Ah.. so you're expecting for a certain person?? :D Well I think if she doesn't reciprocate, it's time for you to move on.. and if you do really love her, PERSISTENCE is the name of the game.. :D
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@HeartWalker (121)
• India
6 Jun 07
Dude,
Both of us are in the same age group, and now we should think of earning more money to stabilise our self in the present to earn a mature and good future.
So, read stories of billionaires like Donald Trump, founders of companies like Ford, Coke,Pepsi and the like.
try achievement.org, there you can read lots of motivational material.Once you get some motivation, then sustain it regularly by reading these sort of things, and get on keep on working on your work, this way you will forget about girls.
Once you have achieved something with your life, all girls will come flocking to you naturally and fall at your feet for your greatness.
So read some stories of great ppl, and make yourself great
I am glad to have been your assistant in this mission.
yours friendly
Heartwalker
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@candiec2005 (828)
• United States
1 Jun 07
I have felt like this before. It sucks, I know. But you know what? You aren't always going to feel like this. This will pass. Just have faith and be positive that you'll meet someone nice.
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@senthil2k (1500)
• India
2 Jun 07
Hey man, this is the right time for you to involve in some serious relationship. Go for it man. You will definitley love it once you are into it. Look for a right girl, but I sincerely adivce dont be in a hurry to choose a girl. Take your time, choose a girl who can really understand you and at the same time you can undestand. Lacking love is the something serious in ones life and dont do that in your life too. Anyway, these are my personal opinio, and you decide yours. All the best.
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