Please help me my friend cheated me

June 1, 2007 1:05pm CST
please help me, my friend cheated me, he talk to me only when he has some work and now he became very bad, he hurted me badly, please tell me how i come out of this pain, even he speak bad words, he behavior suddenly become very very strange, i am in doubt that i made friend with this person, how suddenly some one will change. How to know the person, what qualities we see when we make friendship, and how to overcome from this pain.
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@nidahali (446)
• Pakistan
1 Jun 07
First of all, I am sorry to hear that you had to face such a situation. I can tell from experience that it hurts like hell when someone whom you consider a friend hurts you. Secondly, I would like to advise you not to emotionally attach yourself to this situation.... don't think about it and try not to be alone.... spend time with your family and loved ones. We are only humans, and humans tend to think about everything regardless of their importance. So, first thing you should do is avoid being alone and thinking about that guy. You should not doubt your friendship... well atleast not what you put in. Some people can be jerks and time only tells whose who.... so don't go punching yourself for something you have no control over. Last but not the least.... dude, forget that guy and make new friends... try new challenges and stuff that you like to do. Don't worry about your friend if he is a good friend like you thought he/she was then he/she will realize what they have done and might come back otherwise I am sure he/she would lose a good friend like you.... So,in short enjoy life!