Do you prefer arrange marriage than love marriage??

I agree that it is controversial. Everyone has his own opinion on it while it could be changed after marriage. One of my friend has a love marriage five years ago told me man is of no difference in love but money. I wondered and cannot take the side of her fully till now. And, if someone is too old to find his/her love marriage, it could be acceptable for him/her to choose an arrange marriage. Yes, it could be. Life is short and tough. I believe that every one prefer a love marriage rather than an arrange one. But sometimes life will force us to make different decisions.

I think I had response to this topic before. Well, you're right, this is the most controversial topic. I prefer love marriage of course. I can't really imagine that I will be married to a guy that I don't even know him~~~ I prefer to marry to someone that I really love, care and someone that I'm sure he will care for me...

I would definitely prefer love marriage to arranged marriages. I do not think that I could have a "normal" relationship with someone in an arranged marriage. I also think that this would make it even harder to have a "good" marriage.

love-marriage does not ends happily? it was due to many other factor and i think it is not a good way to relate it to arrange marriage. In my society, we do not practice arrange marriage anymore. This is our life and we should ourself decide who is the one that we loved to have to spend the rest of our life.

To me, this is not a controversial topic at all. Whether it should be love marriage or arranged, depends on the type of person. Everyone I know wants a love marriage, but very few people actually know how to judge people, which is why they fall in love with the wrong people and mess up their lives. Arranged marriages are also often messed up because in several occasions, parents are very poor judges of character. I have seen many parents marry off their children to others for the money, status, etc, least bothered about the character of the person. In my opinion, it should be a love marriage, with the parents knowing the boy/ girl and approving the marriage. I'm not talking about getting the approval of the parents in the last stages, but letting them know that you are in love, and getting them to know the person. This way, everyone can pool their information about character judgement, and any negatives will be revealed early itself, so that the right decision can be taken

I'd prefer the LOVE MARRIAGE thing because I can personally choose my Mr. Right. I believed that relationships grow better when you guys can get the chance to really know eachother well. ;)