cheating
By mismoney
@mismoney (130)
United States
June 2, 2007 6:22pm CST
you find out your buddy no much of a friend but buddy has been calling your husband secretly for 3 months do you approach her and what the hell do you say? i found my buddy's cell number on my mans cell phone and then i checked his phone bill and found they have been calling each other for the past 3 months and he denied it until i showed him the proof. He said he'll never call her again bc he doesnt want to lose me but should i save my breath and not talk to her or should i call her and curse her out for doing this behind my back.
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@babygurl03 (268)
• Canada
3 Jun 07
Well it really all depends on why they are talking and why they were keeping it a secret. I find that guys are scared that if they talk to there girls friend there girl will think something is up and overeact and get mad at them. If I was you I would ask him why he was talking to your friend so much and see what he says. If you are going to talk to your friend about it you shouldnt curse her out because that is just being childish and inmature, You should just ask her what is going on and be cival about it because it will get you further in the long run to finding out what is going on, But then again im only 17 years old and I dont know everything. Good luck Hope all works out for you.
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@mismoney (130)
• United States
5 Jun 07
her husband beats her and she told him she needed a friend to talk to and according to him they talk about kids and she talks about her problems and my husb fixes computers so they supposedly talk about computers but she has called me onlyh once like i said shes not my friend she is an associate/ buddy she has made no effort to be more that that but with my man she has
age has nothing to do w it im 35 and im still learning unfortunetly i iwsh i knew it all
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@babygurl03 (268)
• Canada
5 Jun 07
Well maby they are just friends it sounds like she does need a friend, And if they really are just talking about the stuff that you said then you have no worries. But if she's not really a friend I find it kinda funny that she took the time to get to know your man better and not you when most girls would rather get close to a girl because we tend to be more nurtering and caring when it comes to stuff like this and haveing problems. thanks for the comment one age, just most people are like well shes only 17 what does she know type a deal.. good luck XOX
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6 Jun 07
I wouldn't know exactly what to say, because I dont know her personally.. As for confronting her he probably already gave her a heads up. Calling would just piss you off because she would probably lie also, and then once she knows shes really found out she may fling insults. Personally I think it started out as a call or two and developed into calling back and forth all the time.. Truly it would have been better for him not to place himself in this situation in the first place.. but some people don't think of the consequences of their actions. We are only human after all. He knows hes caught.. she probably does too.. just watch carefully but let it go. Good luck.
