I'm so Worried my Ex hasn't brought my Daughter home yet

good point, i think my instinct would also be to contact the police blessed be

Hey there I just wanted to let you know Reuben has Dropped the kids off (Whew) I have never had such a ugly feeling in my belly like this before. When I had asked him why he didn't call he replied with I assumed you knew I was keeping her, Just then his wife perked up and said I told you should call her. I hope that he never does this again.....Thank you so much for your thoughts and prayers it really helped =) Stacy

Of course you were going to be worried, he didn't contact you to let you know or organise it with beforehand. He should not have done what he did. Why didn't he answer his phone? I am glad that everything was ok now, but he should not have put you through that.

He said he and the kids were out all night I was like WHAT so they didn't sleep at your house?? he said Yes I said well didn't you get the message I left asking just to call me to tell me everything is OK. He looked dumb founded so what he did is beyond me, but his wife looked over and said I told him to call you. He also told me there was no way I could be this hurt and nervous over this situation. As far as I'm concerned all he cares about his himself (selfish) I would have never done this and would have call to inform him of any changes. Grrrr thank goodness I am no longer married to this man.

Thank you so much for your response, The kids were finally dropped off today around 2ish.....I had let Reuben know how he made me feel and how worried I was about the kids, He didn't think that I was this upset and said he just assumed I knew he was keeping Jessica over night. I told him his communication needs to improve for it was not discussed and therefore I had no clue. A phone call wouldn't have hurt, but hopefully he wont do this again =) Thank you again for your thoughts =)

Thanks for the update. I was thinking about you!

He has brought my kids home Sunday 1:50 pm.....He told me they were really busy and just assumed I knew he would be keeping Jessica over night. Thank you for your Response on this Stacy

That's a good point, I didn't think of the kids may be with the neighbours if his wife had gone into labour. We are all definitely concerned. I just hope for the best.

Thank you so much for your thoughts and concerns ......Jessica is not home, and I did make a call to the hospital no Stacey there yet. I called his mother and she said that he probably assumes it was OK to keep her over night and disagrees with the fact he hasn't call to tell me this. I don't know what would give the the go ahead to just keep her like this because yesterday, I had all 4 kids ready to go for their visits when he hit with some disgusting news that he was no longer going to accept Cierra my oldest (10) to his home. This really upset me as they left but No words on I'm keeping or may I keep Jessica was asked. I Notice I seem to over react I mean I cant see him steeling the kids either but nor has he done this sort of thing before. I was home yesterday at 4:00 to feed my other children dinner and to wait till I got word to see what going to happen so Mike, I and the kids could go finish the shopping. I stayed here till 7:50 when I made my 1st attempt to call him to see what was up? No answer, so Mike, I and the kids ran out to look around their apartment to see if the van was there No van. We came back home I then called again at 9:50 and still no answer, I called his mom at 11:00 and she tried No answer but also said she could be at her mothers, or friends ect. His drop off time is 1:00 today and usually he drop them off by 2:30 the latest if not home at that time I am going to put the call in to the police. There is just so much that is going through my head. Thank you again and I will be sure to keep you all posted. Thanks again for your thoughts and prayers Stacy

I'm just praying that Stacy has forgotten to post that she has her daughters back and that they are safely in bed now. After all, Stacy would be exhausted from all that worry...so maybe she is sleeping right now, too. I'm praying...

Hey there and Thank you for response.....There could be lots of different reasons for this for sure, I will give him till his drop off time today which is for 2:00 and if still no call or sign I will for sure have this looked into... Thank you again and I will keep you posted Stacy

Thank you for your response...Just wanted to let you know he just finished dropping my kids home =) I would have to say he had me pretty worried. I had called the hospital, his sister's his mom's his home, I even left a message just asking him to call me to let me all was find last night 9:50 and that he could all at anytime of the night. My sleep was awful but was given him till 2:00 after that I would have called the police, but Thank goodness it didn't go that way. I just want to thank you for your response and hope you have a wonderful day =) Stacy

Thank you for your response I waited until Sunday 2:00 which was around the time frame he came strolling in. I confronted him about this and told him my feelings, He said at first he didn't believe I would be this worried, but if you seen what I looked like yesterday I'm sure you could tell....anyhow anything is fine my kids are home safe and sound ....Thanks again for your support in this it really helped.

Thank you so much for your response, My kids were brought back to me yesterday around 2:00 I had a talking to with their father explaining me had me worried to no end. He just assumed I knew he was going to keep Jessica over night which I didn't know and was home well before my time to be here for her or for the call asking if she could stay.. I am so Thankful they are home I never want to get those feeling again .....=) Have a great day

They are back what a huge Relief.....When he pulled up I asked the kids to meet inside the house. I explained in a clam but sneaky voice that I was worried to no end. He couldn't understand why so I explained I thought maybe they were in a accident or Stacy went to have the baby or simply just didn't want to bring Jessica home. He said that he assumed I knew he was going to keep her but those words were not said yesterday morning when he left my house at 11:10.....All I can say is I'm so thankful my kids are home safe and sound and hope that Reuben will be a little more respectful with communication and times. Thank you so much for your Thoughts!!

OMG I am so glad! I am sorry that happened though, I would have been sick, seriously. I would have been throwing up. I am happy everything is okay, and yeah that was really disrespectful on his part. Sounds like something my ex would do.

I will continue to call today and Hope to get an answer, His drop off time is for 2:00 and if still nothing I will be sure to have it looked into... Thank you for your response Stacy

Thank you so much!!!!! Stacy