what will you do if you don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend?
By dita13
@dita13 (431)
Indonesia
June 3, 2007 4:32am CST
for me being single isn't bad..
I like it, we can enjoy our live..
and I won't really thinking about getting boyfriend, I just think that I have a life and my life isn't just about boys..
so, what will you do if you don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend?
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9 responses
@Madona1 (2096)
• Gibraltar
11 Jun 07
Personally I believe in the destiny. So if I don't have a boyfriend, I will not worry very much. Obviously I will take part in all kinds of activities and go out with friends to create more chances to find my love one. But this doesn't mean I am desperate to find one. The more haste, the more difficulty to find the right one.
@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
well for me i will prepare myself for my next relationship. Give lots of time to my family friends career. Pamper myself look good and feel good, make myself productive to the fullest so that i can have something to contribute for my next relationship.
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@velvetprinzess (1064)
• Singapore
7 Jun 07
I think it's perfectly ok not to have a partner. One should only have a partner if one is ready for a relationship. If one has not met the right person, then I think it would be best to just enjoy the singledom because that really is the best time in one's life as one will have the freedom to do anything.
So I would say that I would just carry on with my life, go out and meet more people. Maybe I'll meet someone, maybe I won't but that's ok. There's more to life than just having a partner.
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@lovelydame3000 (1577)
• India
9 Jun 07
Hi dita13! I have also not been bothered about the fact that i am single now. I like my freedom. I am not keen on permittting anyone to interfere with my life.
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@latsmom (824)
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10 Jun 07
I think when people don't enjoy their own company and rush into relationships that they end up unhappy and with someone they don't really want to be with, if you can't enjoy your own company how the hell can you expect anyone else to. I have been single for 2 years now and have used the time to rediscover who I am and I have no intention of settling down until I find someone who will compliment my life and that of my daughter rather than complicating it.
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@sheena04 (117)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
yea, it is not bad. I'm single too. Being single or alone means you have the time to grow, it gives you space to grow. Sometimes it harder to grow if you are too close to someone. Trees are planted apart so they can grow and spread their branches as they mature. Single means liking and respecting who you are and why you are. It means freedom, free to love again, free what you want in life and do what you want. I just wait for the person that God will give to me.
@sherville (160)
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
enjoy things your doing because its the only time you can have it yourself without worrying someone might get hurt or whatever... being single is the freeist, happiest time u can have with your life (just for awhile) because when you get married? care not to yourself but to your partner and your own family 'til your done here on earth! ;)
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@tamskie (388)
• Philippines
3 Jun 07
what i will do if i have no boyfriend? well, right now i do not have a boyfriend. and for me it is better because i a FREE! i mean free wherever i want to talk with the opposite and giggle and cheer up with them. what i do right now is just simply go out with friends, enjoy my life with my family, live life!
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