A Bondage of Loneliness...

Different things are responsible for making us lonely. Whatever it is that is making me lonely, I try to deal with that situation. I also pray. Another thing that helps is helping other people. It takes your mind off yourself. Keeping busy can help also.

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It is easy to let our emotions, especially our negative or sad ones rule our lives. You say you rebuke these feelings, and I am guessing then, that is in the Lord's name you rebuke them. God likes us to be active in our own care, as well, and do things that will help us spiritually. One of the things I do when I have feelings of loneliness or self pity, is to consciously seek out people to help. This puts my feelings in perspective, helps someone else, does the Lord's work, and possibly makes a new friend for me. The same principles of helping others are effective as well for people without faith, because doing good feels good, it makes us have happy hearts and minds.

If I was to feel lonely, or any other negative feeling, I would never fight it, but look deeply into it, for this is an automatic reaction (that is not of my choosing) and would mean that my subconscious mind is attempting to communicate something about the feelings. I do this because, when feelings like this are rejected, they don't actually go away, they just become subconscious and need resolving not denying. We all inhabit a physical body and through the body are separate from others, but our hearts and minds are not confined to the body - we can reach out to others and whilst we may be alone, we can know that there are loved ones in our minds, and in this way, we have no need to feel lonely. So I would always examine negative feelings like loneliness, just observing them and listing to what the mind is "saying", then without judgement of condemnation, the negative feelings are transcended, and not effecting my life :-)

being lonely or sad is natural for us humans. If we deny it, it will just catch up on us and will be more devastating. Wallowing in pain and sadness is not bad as long as we rise above it and use it to rethink and redirect our lives. I always think about the calm after the storm and it's always a good feeling to survive and be able to move on.

Hi, I believe without feeling loneliness there could never be happiness. I just like to point out that you feel greater happiness right after the loneliness. I would have to say that yu don't need to rebuke it 'cause it is natural part of life. But if you feel that happiness is nowhere near in reaching your life yet, just divert your attention aside from you loneliness so you can ease the feeling of being alone.

In order to change your situation you need to take action. It is often said that by helping others we help ourselves. If we concentrate on helping others we will forget about our loneliness. Do not wait for someone to solve your loneliness. Take action and see how many people you can help today. You will find that you are not lonely any more.