how can we encourage our pre-schoolers to have interest in reading
By arekha72
@arekha72 (56)
Philippines
June 3, 2007 10:07am CST
i really am having a hard time to think i am a voice/speech tutor myself. but when it comes to my son, i really had a hard time teaching him even if i know i am so linient sometimes just for him to be at ease. but, lately i really need him to let him do the reading since it's going to be in his first grade this year. i feel so sorry for him earlier when i kinda mad at him already bec i want him to bear it in his mind how to do the reading easily ilke the vowels and consonats.. ohhh..i fel so sorry for my kid. not to mentiion, he's kinda has an autism, started to talk at 4 years old and a premature baby. but, i can see his potential to exell but only he has "fears" as he said to me. and so very shy type.. any ideas on what is best for me to do?
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11 responses
@billionaire5 (1333)
• United States
4 Jun 07
First you must get rid of your doubts and help him build his confidence by first having confidence in him yourself. Then use books with lots of pictures, do not pressure him, take it slow, my son did not talk until he was three years old and he is a very intellengent 20 year old young man now. When they talk longer to talk doesn't mean they can't, sometimes they are just absorbing everything around them. Always encourage your child no matter what your doubts are and if he is shy let him take his time to develop his confidence in being outgoing. Everything takes time it may not be in your time, but in his time, when he is ready. So children take longer to open up, don't force him and don't get mad or frustrated with him because you feel he should be doing more, you will hinder is growth with trying to live up to your expectations. And if he has autism you really must develop more patients, but you should have him tested and not speculate about this condition.
@billionaire5 (1333)
• United States
5 Jun 07
It only seems hard because you have everything on your shoulders but if you have faith you will perservere. You don't have to cry it will get easier, you are a strong woman and you can do it. You are part of an elite group it is a lot of us single mothers and we survive and so will you. Your son loves and needs for you to be strong and patient everything will work out it just takes time.
@arekha72 (56)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
hi. thank you, i coldnt hel myself shedding tears here wihle reading your comment. that's really what i have to stretch, my patience. i am just too pressured with the things going in me. i am a singlemom and i dont know waht t to survive.. but i make it a point to give what is needed for him. thank you for the encouragement here too. it will help a lot.
@tamskie (388)
• Philippines
3 Jun 07
We can encourage our pre - schoolers to enjoy reading by giving them books which have a really good image on it for them to be able to look good at the image and would want to start reading whats within the book. And also, you could bring your pre - schooler to a reading school. Your pre - schooler will really learn a lot there.
@arekha72 (56)
• Philippines
3 Jun 07
hi, thank you for the advice.. but you know what.. i am a singlemother myself, but i make it a point that he is wellfed with books..cd's etc esp for a fact that he was diagnosed as a slight autistic child. but he is not really that fond of reading.. which i dont know why, he is very good in drawing.. he loves doing it than taking time reading books.. im sad:( but, i said to myself, i just gotta wait until he realized how important reading is. thank you..
@fellowlife (988)
• Nigeria
4 Jun 07
there's nothing so good and easy to learn than with the power of visuals. I think good books should be read to the children and it should be filled with images which i believe they would be able to grab quickly.
Most times they remember what they see on television more that what they read cause the television boasts of more visuals than the books they read.
@arekha72 (56)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
yeah. i got your point. i also have thought about that even though he is too much of television. but anyhow, things he sses on television could be ahelp thry letters and he gets to read them without him knowing it.. that he is reading already hehe.. that's also a trick. thank you..
@wachit14 (3595)
• United States
3 Jun 07
Don't be too hard on him. I was the same way with my own daughter and I am also a teacher. I later found out that she had a processing disorder which is ever so slight, but enough to impede her reading. Thankfully, she is now reading on or above grade level and her comprehension is very good. Having said that, don't push the issue. Bring him to the library and see if he can find any books of interest to him, even if they are only picture books. You can also make fun trips to the book stores. Many book stores like Borders have special activities just for children which revolve around reading. It's also a great way for him to socialize with other kids his own age. Good luck.
@arekha72 (56)
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
ohh i like what you commented, you somehow lifted my spirits up. i told myself , in due time my son will get better esp in his reading skills. but you know, he is so fond of books , he is well fed in it esp his difficulty in his speech so i tried to feed those needs. but, sometime i just dont know why he is more intrested in drawing than reading.. thanks for wishing me luck!
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
4 Jun 07
Yes!.... Read, read, and read to him. Pick stories that he likes, and read them over, and over. Kids have a wonderful imagination, and stories read to them, Come Alive in their minds. Buy the little books for him, and let him see the pictures and the words as you read. Read to him every day and if you can, read him to sleep at Night. Forget the teaching, just read, and he will soon be reading the stories himself. Kids learn when they are ready! Help him to Love the Learning Time, and make it as interesting for Him as you Can!
@arekha72 (56)
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
wow.. wonderful comment i have here. thank you for that. so, i myself wouldnt be panicking and wont be having a hard time in it. this somehow helped my out.. i always make it a point to read him books or anything we see even on the road for him to have an idea how to read properly.. thanks for the good advice. just relax .. while you red hehe..
@thearrowz2 (32)
• Canada
4 Jun 07
Get them a book they will enjoy, spend time with them. Maybe tell them if they continue learning they'll get prizes. Like a cookie after reading a book.
@lillake (1630)
• United States
3 Jun 07
Read to your child often. Every chance you get read to your child. As you are reading point to the words on the page. Get him lots of books with simple,e arly reading words. Learning to read these easy books will help him have confidence to read more. And let him see you reading books for fun. If he thinks of reading as a chore or a job he will be less likely to want to read. But if he sees that his parents reads for fun he will want to do the same.
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
3 Jun 07
I would set a special time that you and him can sit and read together every day and make sure that you tell him that he has to help you read as you are not sure that you can do all of it. Don't nag at him if he can't read but a few things at least he is reading.
I should be an expert on this as both of my girls struggle with reading and I am now homeschooling them. It has helped some, but there are days that I either don't want to read anymore or I just don't have the time and once I let them slide then I have a new battle.
@spalsh (17)
• Singapore
4 Jun 07
I agree =)
It takes a lot of discipline, both on the part of the parent and child. At this stage, however, the onus would be on the parent as the parent is the person who dictates the child's development in learning.
One tip in child education is to always make it fun. Through fun, children are more open to learning and the enthusiasm can go a long way to a fruitful learning relationship for both parties. =)
@Gumball (793)
• United States
3 Jun 07
I know some people won't like my suggestion but I'll say it anyway. If you have access to a DVD player, let your child watch a DVD and turn on the closed captioning. That way they can read what's being said while they watch the show. It makes it fun for them while they learn. I did that with my daughter and she could read before she was 3. She's 7 and will be going into grade 2 in the fall. Her teachers told me that she can read at a grade 4 or 5 level now.
@tdbrower1969 (1242)
• United States
4 Jun 07
I would also suggest setting aside time every day for the two of you to read whatever book he choses. Have patience and help him grow into reading and loving to read. Also, I would think about taking him to the library for story time, if you have a library that has that program. Mine has different age ranges and different readers to read to the kids. I think that if he might see other children enjoying the story time, and then choosing their own books to read, it might help him overcome some of those fears.
@evangsegun (34)
• Nigeria
4 Jun 07
It what our wards need now is just telling, them positive words, like you can make it,even in the midst of million you can the best. thanks