do you think the women who stay at home really become losyang?

hi there! :) with the "i dont care" attitude of yours, i can truly relate with you. lolz. :) we have no helpers also in our house so i tend to help around with the household chores since i dont want my mom to do all the work. :) well, you must be really beautiful for your husband to say that he likes the real you, huh? :) lucky lucky you.. :)

hehe! ;0 you are so right! we really cannot trust men, 100% sure about it. ;0 i was cheated many times already and i tell you, i can really say that men are really conniving and manipulating people. :P

Ha..ha..ha.. Please don't jump to the conclusion that fast. I am just an average 30-something out there. Maybe I am lucky as my husband thinks so about me. But, still I need to be alert..Men cannot be trusted 100%, not even your husband!

I wouldn't call it beauty--just real. I don't believe in making myself up to be someone I am not to impress people. My husband loves me just the way I am just like I love him for who he is. We don't hide under make up and stuff. Which reminds me--why don't guys have to get "made up" to be presentable in public?

hi there! :) well, i guess you are one of those women who are blessed with effortless beauty. :) i have some friends who are like that, they are really too lazy to make themselves up and they go out au naturel, with no make up at all. and still, a lot of guys are fascinated by them! :)

I agree to alot of this. I know when I get up in the morning to two kids and a sink full of dishes my first thought is not to shower and put on some make up. I do know women who stay at home and do take care of them first. I know my kids will love me no matter how I look, but if I dont get my chores done then I am not teaching them to do their chores either. I do exaust my self durring the day but it is all worth it when the work is done because I have all the time to spend with my family, and I hope that makes up for all the stress on my looks. I do have the cash for makeup but I have never been a huge makeup person. Mascara is a full face of makeup for me. Everyone is differnt but this is a great life for me. Now off to the grocery store with a kid in each hand and a set of keys in my teeth. Im sure it will cause me stress but we enjoy a good meal. Its all worth it in the end.

hi there. well, i guess you have made some real good points there. lolz. it really is true. there are really some wives who are like that. and those are one of the reasons why their husbands become philanderous. :P but thats another story. lolz. :)

hi there! :) oh my! the example that you have given is really one that is in reality! see? men really want their wives to still look good even if she is just staying at home and even if they already have children. ladies, we got a lot to do here, and maybe, we are a bit responsible or we are to blame, if our husbands or boyfriends look for a replacement because we dont really make ourself look beautiful. :P

hi there! :) yes, you are right, it just depends on the woman. :) well, i think i learned some pretty good life lessons from this discussions. :) thank you so much for taking time to reply, my friend. :)

haha, you are correct! lolz. i feel so lazy to groom myself when i am at home because i am thinking "so what, it is only my family who can see me". lolz. :) but you know, i am doing house work at home so i guess that adds up to my losyang factor. lolz. :P

nah. i dont think so, unless of course, u do ALL the houseworks. :D

now that is the point that i have been waiting for! ;0 you see, it is good for me to stay unkempt and unsightly when i am at home because i still have no husband, im still 19 years old for god's sake! lolz! ;0 but for the married women, i think that is a different story and i think you have made some good points because i have really seen some real, live, good examples of men becoming philanderous because their wives are just staying at home, getting fat and not really minding their physical appearance. there is really a danger of men looking for someone new in their office or in their workplace because surely, all the girls in the workplace or in the office are well-groomed, good-looking, nice-smelling, etc. i just hope that married women could also take the time and effort to make themselves look presentable and fresh, and not just depend on the fact that since they are already tired of doing all the housework, they are excused from looking good. :P

yeah, i can truly relate! how i look like and what i wear when i am at home will never ever be worn outside of our house. lolz. :) and i really see to it that i look nice and well groomed before i go out of the house. i really wont permit myself looking losyang when i go out of the house. we all have our pride and dignity, you know. ;)

haha! i agree with you! speaking of clothes? oh my, my clothes are so ratty and faded that even the salvation army wont even accept those. lolz. :P they are ugly enough to be rags. lolz. :) yes, i agree, we dont need to pretend or uphold an image when we are at home. we can looka s ugly as we want and our family wont disown us or whatever. :) as for the losyang thingy, when i am at home, i admit that i can look pretty "blah" but i am still comfortable and happy with myself because i am confident enough that when i prepare or make myself look beautiful, like comb my hiar, put on some powder, i still know that i will look stunning. lolz. :)

True and I guess our mother is right. It's not for their own good but for our own sake. Maybe we should still give our self some time to fix well.

haha, i feel you, girl. my mother always scolds me when i am at home and she keeps telling me to take a bath, to comb my hair, to wash my face, etc. but i just ignore her because i keep thinking, why should i? im just at home, why should i bother looking nice and cute? lolz. but seriously, i know what im doing is kinda wrong, it makes me belong to the "sloth" side. but what can i do? i am to lazy to primp myself when i am at home. for short, i have no motivation. lolz. :) haha! :)

hehe.. so that really happens, huh? but do you still have some extra time for yourself? like a day where you go to a spa or something? and then you make yourself up and have yourself pampered? :)

hi there! :) see, that is one factor why we tend to not fix ourselves and that is: laziness... ;0 but im glad that school will start soon because i wil be fixing myself everyday. ;0 you know, its kinda important to look our best when we are in school. ;0 good grooming is really very important in school, right? :)

hi there! :) your points and opinions are very nicely put, i appreciate it. ;0 however, for your point which you said that the housewives look beautiful in and out of the house, i think i have to disagree on that one because you know why? a lot of housewives in our country, are living proof that some women, who are just staying at home and doing chores, are neglecting their beauty. sometimes they get too fat, and they dont even make any effort to beautify themselves anymore. its just too sad for a fact, and i myself sont want to be like that when i will be a wife and a mother in the future. :)

hi there! : that is a really nice perspective. :) you are a real inspiration to other women. and you are also a good example. you are right, i should maintain my beauty,even if im just staying at home. beauty is important, even though it is involving make up or not. :)

hehe, yes i agree with you. there really is no use to use make up and other beautifying products when we are at home. but like i said before, that can cause the husbands to be philanderous. lolz. :P

hi there! you know what, i like your answer. i think i am one of those women you are referring to. lolz. :) i mean, not to brag or something, i do look good whenever i want to. its just that when i am at home, i dont really give some effort in trying to make myself look good. i mean, what for? lolz. :)

hi there! :) yes, i think it really does depend on the woman who is staying at home. when i grow up, and have a family of my own, i wanna stay beautiful and fresh and young. :) but for now, since i am still young, i dont have my own family, i am still living with my parents, so i really dont see any reason for me to make an effort to beautify myself when i am at home. :)

hi there! :) you know what, my mom uses that line. sometimes, she makes "drama" and says, "you only fix yourself when you are going out of the house, you give more importance to other people than you family. why whey you are with your family, you just let yourself look homely?" i know that she is just joking, but she really made a point there, huh? ;0