a second chance or goodbye.......

Goodbye ,,,for ever and ever. Because such things hurt a lot and you cannot be the same person again after knowing what your boyfriend or girlfriend did to you. No matter how much you try to forgive him/her.....you will never have same feelings again, so why to do injustice to yourself and also to your partner. Better to make fresh start with someone else......... till he/she ditches you again ..........lol

i did both for my ex bf. i gave him a 2nd chance when i knew that he have other rel aside fr me . i did that coz i love him that time and i want to save our rel. but still end up breaking him coz he never changed and ive realized no point to spend the rest of my life to a cheater.waste or time and not worthy for my love. now im very much happy wt my new bf he's very loving,understanding and loyal...far btr fr my ex!

Id probably say goodbye. I just cant forgive someone who had betrayed me that bad. The thing is, when something like cheating happens, you cant just forget it. If my boyfriend cheated on me and we stayed together, I think Id feel insecure and worry all the time and everytime we fight, the cheating would somehow come up.

depends on the kind of phase relation is goin thru ull hv to 4giv if u make him/her feel unwanted..resultin in this but if its not that.....i personally feel that cheatin is a worst kind of abuse to a persons dignity i wudnt 4giv that person...but i wud remain cordial...4 avoid him/her as much as i can

I think it is much better for you give him an another chance to prove himself to you. If he cheated, it doesn't already means he's totally not in love with you. I think there are some reason or reasons why he do it. Try to patch up things between the both of you. It is really hard to be hurt, and a broken heart is hard to mend. Just try to work things out and I hope that both of you will still be together. Goodluck...

i did both to my ex. i give him second chance hoping we will change but still i end up breaking wt him aftr our 5 yrs rel.its not really worth for ur love and time to spend wt a cheater. now im so happy wt my bf. his very loving,understanding and loyal. far better fr my ex

to me once a cheat always a cheat. With this in mind there can never be another chance because once the trust is gone in a relationship it has gone for ever and can never be regained blessed be

to me once a cheat always a cheat. With this in mind there can never be another chance because once the trust is gone in a relationship it has gone for ever. But if it is just a joking or a small thing, I don't care about it at all. My bf often cheat me about small things, and after a while, he will laugh if I trust his cheat. but he never cheat me about important things. Sometimes I think it is a good way to increase our relationship, when you stay with someone for a long time, then you will feel boring.

I'll give him a chance but once he did it again then its sayonara (goodbye)Once is enough twice is too much :)