When a woman is older than her man in a relationship...

Saudi Arabia
June 4, 2007 7:16am CST
in a relationship (whatever it is, married or just couple), do u see it a problem if the woman is older than the man ? As for me, i don't see it a problem at all, as long as there's mutual love and understanding, I myself see it okey.
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• United States
4 Jun 07
Nope no problem here, my spouse is 5 yrs older than I am. Its funny sometimes because she jokes that if I shave she feels like a pediphile. I don't have a problem with it though.
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• Saudi Arabia
5 Jun 07
Yes there should not be a problem. Wish you both good luck. Thanx 4 the response.
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
5 Jun 07
I dont see a problem with it at all. I'm 48 and my wife is 12 years older than I am and we're celabrating our tenth anniversary in a couple of weeks. I've never been happier with my life than I am right now. I guess Ive always been a bit old fasioned and so is my wife so it works out real good for us. Take care, Terry
• Saudi Arabia
5 Jun 07
Congratulations Terry, wish you and your lovely wife the best luck in the world. Thank you very much for your input. See you around.
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
9 Jun 07
Thank you for the best response
@bhawnam (1436)
• India
4 Jun 07
see in a relationship one has to be older and the other person is to be younger.. so if the man is younger then what is the big deal.. the most imp thing is that both love each other have respect each other..!!
@bhawnam (1436)
• India
4 Jun 07
Also this is biologically possible that means even God does not have any problem with this...!!
• Saudi Arabia
5 Jun 07
You are absolutely right. There shouldn't any problem about that, what matters is just they both could get along together and love each other. Thank you for ur response ...
@inked4life (4224)
• United States
9 Jun 07
There's an old saying that goes.."Age is mind over matter..if you don't mind, it doesn't matter" I have been with my wife for 11 years and she is 7 years older than me. It has never been an issue for us at all.
• Saudi Arabia
10 Jun 07
Hi thanx 4 ur response, i agree with you.
• Saudi Arabia
5 Jun 07
I think it depends on the tow engaged in the relationship.. For me I like the guy to be older than me because I think older guys understand me better.. but if I met a younger guy that is mature enough and can understand me well I won't have a problem with the relationship...
• Saudi Arabia
5 Jun 07
U r absolutely right, it all depends on the nature of the relationship, if a guy in his 30's fell in love with 40-year old woman, that's no problem as long as both are wise and mature. Same situation when a girl in her 20's let's say 24 fell in love with someone in 30's it is also okey as long as they're both okey. It also depends on the character. Some guys like gurls whose age is close, some like relatively younger girls and some like older. So it depends on the perosn's character. Thank you for your response...
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
:D im in a relationship right now and i am 3 years older than my boyfriend. i dont see it a problem since we are getting stronger. the thing is, he is more mature than me in terms of making decisions and being independent.
• Saudi Arabia
5 Jun 07
Cool wish you both good luck, thanx 4 the response
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
4 Jun 07
I dont have a problem with it at all. I am a female and yes my husband is older than me by 8 days but my mom is olderthan my step-father by almost 2 yrs. Love is all that matters not age.
• Saudi Arabia
5 Jun 07
Yes me too i think it is okey. Thanks for your response.
4 Jun 07
I don't see it as a problem @ all. my first ever relationship was with a much older woman than myself! think of the experience :P but u no how society will look @ a younger man with an older woman as a boy toy.