Could you ever get into a serious relationship with a Stripper?

Having been a dancer for a number of years while in a committed relationship, I can say it takes a special type of person to handle it correctly. It shouldn't. I can assure you I was NOT interested in the people I danced for anymore than I'd be interested in the guy who bags my groceries. But I get that it can play on a person's insecurities to know their partner is being told they're beautiful constantly or being shown attention by others.

Personally, I could not. However all people are different and have different values and thoughts. A stripper, male or female, shows me low morals and lack of self respect. I would not get involved with someone like that.

I don't like the idea of my partner dancing for other people and showing the goods all around. Granted they seem to make an awful lot of money, especially if they are great at what they do, but money wouldn't help a relationship like that. I'd be afraid they would get carried away and get into something that normal people may not. To save myself the trouble, I'd rather not date one at all, let alone attempt to get into a serious relationship with one.

Nah I'm too jealous! I would be so upset that my man was showing his goods to other girls, it would never last! I wouldnt assume they would be more likely to cheat though unless they gave me indications that they were not trustworthy, but just the thought of them dancing around other women like that would just drive me insane!!

Uh huh Melissa I know why your asking..you CANNOT fool me LMAO! Anywayz HELL YES I would mess around with a stripper and get my free lap dances :) BUT HELL NO I couldnt be in a serious relationship with a male stripper because there would be too many girls tryin to put there you know what in his face and Im not trying to have that. I would be paranoid he was going to cheat everytime he stepped foot out the house to go dance..it would turn me to a pyscho chick (not again) LOL

I could never get into a serious relationship with a stripper because of one universially known fact: STRIPPERS CAN NOT BE TRUSTED!

I really dont think i could.If he told me he wants a relationship then i would tell him if he really loves me he has to change his profession because i dont want him dancing in front of nobody but me.

No, I don't think that I could, I don't think that anyone who would chose such a profession would have the moral fiber that I appreciate in a relationship.

I wouldn't be able to. I don't think there would be a jealousy issue there, though. I just don't think that we would be at all compatible. My husband and I have the same moral values and agree on a lot of the same stuff. Without going too deep, I just don't think I could be with someone that was able to show himself off like that.

heck no but our builder is married to one...gosh no way in this world especially if we had kids too

That would be very tough. On one hand, I would understand it was to make money but the other hand, there could be other people hitting on her. Date, perhaps if she wasn't a bad person at all. It would depend on compatibility and what she's interested in and what I'm interested and see if there's any common ground. I know it sounds off the wall and all over the place but that's the best way I could put it.

This is an interesting topic. I knew two strippers that asked me out, but I never went there. It is very hard to trust a stripper especially what most women do to the strippers when its their bachelorette party or birthday party. I must admit the strippers can be a bit touchy depending which male revue you go to. I've actually heard stories from the strippers of what they did during the job and it would be very hard for me to trust them. Theres one thing to have a job and earn money however their is another thing on how you get your money. I don't knock strippers or exotic dancers because they do it for a living and a form of entertainment. However,some do it for their ego and to get ladies. When I do go to male reviews, its when I celebrate one of my hoemgirl's bday or bachelorette party. I have a hypotheical question for you: what would you do if you dated a guy and he didn't tell you at first what he did because he didn't want to affect the relationship. Then, when it got serious(as far as you and him catching feelings) he confesses to you what he did and said he is willing to leave it for you if you want. What would you do? Would you stay or leave that situation?

That would be really hard.. I'm not even happy seeing my boyfriend talk with other girls.. what more than showing stripping in front of them.. ,

uh..yeah,i could not do neither. It seems very dangerous to be serious with him. Not because of my in-confindence, but his or her profession has the bad nature of tending to be off the track. They are pretty. But as a parterner of a familiy, for me, i will consider him as a mate. Sorry for them. And sorry for me.

One can't predict.. Generally I would not enter into any serios relationship with such character..

It all depends on each individual and even strippers might change if they seriously get involved with someone for sure.True love will change the whole world and even strippers are not an exception.Mind you, only if it is true love it will survive for sure.No doubt in that.

No, i could never get involved with a stripper or exotic dancer. It goes against my morals. Besides, the only person i want my man stripping and danceing for is me.

My bother is married to a ex-stripper, what maybe they are just live together. Evey way she is so controlling that he is not aloud to have contact with us (family). On the other hand, they are people too. We just don't why someone is a stripper/exotic. They can be loved just like other girls. Give a AWESOME Day to someone. Michael

I think yes. As long as you love each other why not?

Hey why not? Man at least you would know you are with a hottie. A persons profession should not be a defining aspect of whether or not to have a relationship with them. Don't we all realize that that doesn't mean you cannot and will not have as much love for your mate. I say date whoever and be with whoever serious or not, because you like them as a individual. Get to the soul of that person. You may find a gem.