When you go out would you tell your Significant other....
By Erilyn
@Erilyn (3020)
United States
June 4, 2007 4:29pm CST
Where you were going, who you would be with, how they could get a hold of you, and when you would be back? Even if you were just running down to the corner for something?
Would you consider this being respectful to your S/O? Would you apperciate your S/O telling you these things? Or do you consider it none of their business and feel upset at them if they ask you? If they ask you these things do you feel like they are prying?
2 responses
@ScarletAlston (2693)
• United States
4 Jun 07
I pretty much have to..whenever I say something like "I'll be back" usually, get "where are you going?" and a bunch of other questions..I consider it sweet that he actually cares about where I am going and whether or not I will be safe..now, if there is something going on with one of my friends and I am in a hurrry, then I think its annoying..
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@ScarletAlston (2693)
• United States
4 Jun 07
Yeah I would tell him on my own..I learned my lesson about leaving and going places not telling anybody..I know that if I get into some sort of trouble while I am out, he will be right there to get me...
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@Erilyn (3020)
• United States
4 Jun 07
I know that feeling, I always want my hunny to know where I am just in case something happens. Also so that he won't worry about me. I am still not used to living out in the country, and I have an ex husband that may not be all that nice if he came out here, so I am in constant contact with my fiance all day long. If I am away from the pc for too long he worries about me. If he is going to be late comming home from work he lets me know so I won't worry also.
@sramsey150 (162)
• United States
4 Jun 07
yes because anything could happen you just never know and especially if you have children. i always let my husband know where i will be and he does the same for me it just the right thing to do not a control thing. some people might view it that way but it's just out of love for one another.
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@Erilyn (3020)
• United States
4 Jun 07
There are a lot of people that do see it as a control issue. I knew a girl who said that he wasn't my father so I shouldn't have to answer to him. I tried to explain to her that it had nothing to do with me feeling like I had to answer to him, but that I love him and respect him enough to let him know what I am doing all the time.
