What is the nicest thing your dad has ever done for you?
By ryanphil01
@ryanphil01 (4182)
Philippines
June 4, 2007 8:02pm CST
I am touched by this phrase, "It doesn't matter who my father was; it matters who I remember he was." -- Anne Sexton.
As we remember our dads on the 17th of June, how about thinking what is the nicest thing your dad has ever done for you?
I felt happy when I was still a kid when my dad accompanied me in one of his travels to the 'City of Pines", also known as Baguio City in the Philippines. It was my first time to visit the place and I enjoyed it so much. Since then, I have never gone to that place anymore.
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@dolce_vita78 (8062)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
my dad has always been with me during my graduation rites. gradeschool, high school, college and when i finished my masters...
@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
he is just proud of you having a child full of ambitions and obtained the goals you've wished for.
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@gypsylady28 (945)
• United States
5 Jun 07
I can't think of only 1 nice thing my dad has done for me. I can remember passing the football, driving me back and forth for everything at school, buying me a horse (we lived on a farm), helping me take care of my vehicles, I think the list is endless. Now that he is retired, he even watches the kids for me a couple days of the week while me and my hubby are working. He deserves a medal for that one!
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
it's worth fulfilling when fathers extend their hands to their children specially on those times we really needed them.
your father does not only deserve a medal but a treat from you on father's day. how about 'pampering' him on that special event of his life!
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
5 Jun 07
My dad has done great things for me. A couple things, big and little stand out to me, but I'll just mention the little thing. We were at my grandparents, which is a 3 hour drive from our house. I got a migraine around 10pm and it wouldn't go away. I hadn't counted on getting one (I was young enough to think leaving the meds behind was OK) and Excedrin of course didn't work. I laid in bed for hours, in agony, until around 6am, my dad came in weary and tired. He made the six hour round trip car ride just to get my migraine medicine. My mom said he told her he just couldn't stand to see me in pain. My dad is not demonstrative, but things like that prove to me I more than matter - I am loved.
@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
you're most welcome ambiepam. God bless
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
how wonderful to have a loving father like yours who without any reservations made it sure that he would come to your rescue. such an exemplary act of a caring father!
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@kelly60 (4547)
• United States
5 Jun 07
My dad has done so many wonderful things for me that it would be impossible to pick just one. I guess I will just say that my dad has always been there for me any time I have needed him. Any time I have asked for his help, he has always come to help me, and often I didn't even need to ask, he just knew that I needed his help and came to lend a hand.
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
nothing else could ever be compared with the love, attention and comfort that a father can give to his children and your dad is being admired for these.
however, would it be nice too if you can show him back what good things he has done for you?
isn't it fair to give him your ultimate gift: which is your time?
it's a suggestion anyhow.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
5 Jun 07
Oh, gosh, Ryan, how can I list 30 years of wonderful stuff my dad did? But to let you know that he was ever thinking of me, he twice found books of special interested to his weirdo daughter on trips & brought them home. Once was Ellery Queens' Sherlock Holmes story about Jack the Ripper, the other was The Girl From U.N.C.L.E. #3 that I don't think hardly anyone else ever had (think it was only printed in England.)
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
such a special relationship you had with your father. he knows you deeper and better than anyone would ever know because you mean so much to him. you must be thankful for having a wonderful and caring father! God bless you and your family.
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
sorry to hear that. i had the same feeling when my dad passed away a year ago. i missed him much.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 07
Hi ryanphil01, I can still remember when my late father brought to my first dentist appointment. I was scared. When my late father realised how scared I was, he accompanied me and held my hand until we finished. It made me feel secure and safe. That was one of the nicest thing my late father has done to me.
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Just like your father who stood by you when you were scared and made you feel secure and safe so does our Father in heaven who promised to each one that He won't leave us nor forsake us and that He is always there for us no matter what happens. God bless.
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@lifeis2good (1183)
• United States
5 Jun 07
This is always a question that I sure wish I could answer - but don't have an answer as I lost my father when I was a young child and my mother never remarried so I don't even know what it's like to have a father!!! God bless those that do - I often wonder what it would have been like to have a father growing up as the only girl in my family!!!
@lifeis2good (1183)
• United States
6 Jun 07
Wow you couldn't have said that any better!!!! Thank You so much for your kind words!!! You sound like a Wonderful Person!!!
@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
'am sorry to hear that from you lifeis2good. i really don't know how to react to your story of not having felt the love and presence of a father. but there's a good news for us because we have our Father in heaven who will take care of us as long as we acknowledge Him to be our master and a friend.
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
it's still love and care for his children after all. should i say an unconditional love?
@Bujoyseth (1684)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
the nicest thing my father has given me, not only me but also my brothers and sister.. he has given us his uncondiotional love, his care and affection.. he taught us how to love other people, how respect others.. he taught us the value of life.. that's why i love him so much.. and i will do anything just to show him how much i care and love him... how much i appreciate all the things he has one for us...
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
to our fathers nothing is dearer than his children. they wanted all the best for their kids. God bless
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
that was a nice gift from your father. he showed how much he cared for you.
@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
well, if you are able to figure it out soon, you are always welcome to share them with us here. thanks.
@kayrod2 (1304)
• Australia
17 Jun 07
That phrase is very touching. Here in Australia we dont have fathers day till september. My father has shown and given me so much. He is a wonderful man, and thats what i love about him. He always worked hard to provide for the family, even though he is disabled. He has never let this stop him. He had polio as a young child and has a very bad leg. It is just like a stick. He was the first disabled person to get the bronze medalion in life saving. He has achieved so much in his life, and i am very proud of him. He is 77 now, and until a few months ago still competed in swimming competitions. The only thing stopping him at the moment is a fracture in his bad leg. Hopefully he will get back to it again.
Best wishes to you, ryan
@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
despite of his being disabled yet he carried along himself the role of a great and wonderful dad to his children. indeed, he is one of a kind to be proud and admired of. your story moved my heart. age and physical imperfections are not hindrances in attaining life's success(es) as your dad has exemplified. he always had positive outlook in his life. i am praying hard that your dad would recuperate from this injury the soonest possible time. God bless.
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@kayrod2 (1304)
• Australia
18 Jun 07
Thank you for your kind words and prayers, ryan. Yes he is a great man. I remember him telling us of when he was little and he wanted a scooter like all the other kids, and my grandmother didnt want to get him one cause she thought it would be too hard. Well, she finally gave in and got it. He rode from Randwick to Maroubra, which is a fair distance, and very hilly. He proved he could ride it, but he was layed up in bed for quite a few days after. He was very determined even at a young age.
Best wishes
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
The ever nicest thing my dad showed me is how to value love itself to other people, specially when it comes to small children.
Sometimes I just get easily irritated to small children specially when they mess up things inside your house or just playing around so much. But it proved me wrong about my feelings towards the small children when I see it with my own eyes and witness the kind of heart that my dad spared to little children and the love he showed to them...from that moment, I feel guilty within myself and realized things there and then that loving children is the very most precious thing a person can do, just like what my dad has done and I am very blessed to have such a loving dad towards the small children.
@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
we look upon our fathers as our models in life. their good traits and characters are one of the best things they can pass on to their children and i am glad you have been blessed with such wonderful and loving father.
@argie713 (1809)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
My father and I are not that close. He is always busy with his work and we argue a lot. But he always supports me financially but I don't think it's enough. Even though we always argue, my father always gives what I want. He is always patient with me.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
this only shows how much your dad loves you. the parent who is always patient with us and supports us all the way, loves us so much. it is this love for the child which moves a parent to act as he should to push the child of his to much greater heights. it is true that the parent gets busy with his work. how will he be able to meet the financial needs of the family if he gets lax with the source of income? remember that in order to accomplish something, that will always require effort and time plus some money, too.
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
the good thing is that your father has not left you in the dark at all. he is still around to support you in whatever way he could. although it may not be enough. in most instances parents in general who cannot find time to be with their kids are prone to have a family breaking apart. this should be avoided as early as possible.
how about taking the first step by letting your father feel how important he is to you. giving your time specially on father's day and pampering him the whole day are but nice gestures to show how much you love him. and at the end of the day uttering the words 'I LOVE YOU DAD' may change everything.
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@targetgirl (44)
• United States
6 Jun 07
My dad used to go to horse shows with me when I was a kid and he didn't even really like horses! He even learned how to saddle and bridle my horse and make sure he was all shiny and ready to go in the ring(but he did draw the line on learning how to braid a mane lol!). My dad would carry buckets of water, nets of hay and saddle all day long without complaint. He was kind of a rarity, most other kids had their moms with them at shows, but not me(at least most of the time, mom came once in a great while)
My dad has done countless things for me over the years but being my "horse show dad" was my favorite.
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
It's worth remembering those days when your father stood by you and made your life blissful.
As the saying goes, "The love of a father is one of nature's greatest masterpieces."
@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
6 Jun 07
My dad and I were never very close but on the day that I got married he couldn't have been any better then he was . He was perfect , he was there for me and he took the time to make sure I was happy even though I know it was hard for him because him and my mom were no longer together and there was a lot of her family there . I was never so happy and proud of my dad that day . You can see the biggest smile on his face as he walks me down the aisle and I never felt closer to my dad then I did on that day . It was the one day of my life that I felt my dad truely cared about me as a person and wanted to see me happy and he did everything he could to try and ensure that it was a happy day for me , even though everything didn't go as planned .
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
the fact that your dad was there beside you during your wedding day, it meant one thing, he cared a lot for you no matter what happened in the past between him and your mom. he stood by you after all.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
i can still remember that our father used to cook for us, too. when i was not yet attending school, we had a simple and happy life at the farm. when it is not my mother who is busy at the kitchen, i see my father doing the work. there were no quarrels then. but i can recall how strict and straight forward my father had always been. he was consistent with his ways of disciplining the kids. this is where is believe my father did best, disciplining the children of the household.
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
what is nice with our fathers is that they always think of the best for their kids. discipline has been a part of a father's symbolism as an authority.
@happythoughts (4109)
• United States
6 Jun 07
My Dad cryed at my wedding. I know lots of Dads cry at their daughters weddings but my Dad does not cry. He grew up taking care of himseld a good deal so he has a tough exterior. I kept it all together until I saw him then I lost it. He will never admit it though.
@gsgonzalez2007 (1004)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
My dad told me: "My child, Money is nothing! knowledge is the only treasure I can give you. But it will be your wealth forever... He said this, when I was asking for money to buy for a new dress. Before he handed to me the money, he uttered those words softly. And from then on, it stucked to my mind. And I thank him for telling me so.....
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
you have been very blessed because your father was a man of principle and a wise man as well.
@lblwydman (25)
• United States
5 Jun 07
My Daddy passed away January 13, 2006 and his passing is still very fresh in my life. I miss him soooo much! In response to this question, I have to say the nicest thing my Dad ever did for me was this: in 2005 Daddy was diagnoised with cancer in his kidneys and it was so far gone that surgery was the only solution at that point. My husband is in the military and was deployed to Kuwait during Daddy's recovering stage. Daddy did not like the fact that me and the kids were living in Augusta GA by ourselves. After a week of convention at our church in Columbia SC, Daddy decided to ride back with us and stay with us for a week. I was so glad that he wanted to come stay with us! Because we were in Columbia for a week, I had not gone grocery shopping so that was one thing I needed to do once we got home. I got up the next day and got the kids dressed to go; hoping to provide Daddy some time to rest. Before I knew it, he was dressed and ready to go with us. SURPRISE!! After going grocery shopping and coming back home, Daddy was extremely tired because he put all the groceries in the truck by himself. When we came home, Daddy looked at me and said, Tasha, you get a few of the packages out first, I need to rest. Well, I got ALL the packages out and brought them in the house. When he realized that's what I did, he began to cry. I said, Daddy what's wrong? He said, Oh nothing, the medicine I have to take makes me this do this (cry) sometimes. It was then I knew that Daddy came to be a help to me; even in all the pain he was in; while I thought I was going to help him get rest! I love you and miss you dearly, DADDY!
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
as i read your story my heart breaks. i understand how you felt those last moments with him as i shared the same feelings too when my dad, who was very ill, never complained of any pain. i had him hospitalized but has never recovered. i lost him a year ago and i missed him a lot.