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Finding a good match?.. things in common are a plus and a few differences add a few spice! are you on the similar wavelength? Ask your self this questions and decide if you're a good match for your partner. 1) attraction Since meeting your new friend, do you think of them often - a warm glow perhaps! What about appearance - did anything put you off? were your potential match fun?.. were you relaxed in their presence?2) common interests Finding a good match in terms of compatibility isn't necessarily about having identical personalities as differences compliment each other. But it may be worth considering the following: Do you have common interests, tastes in music or anything else? Do you spark each others imagination or was conversation dry. (keeping in mind it's never that easy at the start since you know little about each other) Did you make each other laugh - could you imagine spending more time than a day with them. Are you similar intellectual plane - rocket science is your favourite subject, but is it theirs? Do you temperaments mix or do they clash? So have similar values? Are you homely, outgoing or the socialite type?3) lifestyle Do they have ambitions to reach the sky? Would their future plans fit with you? What about background? - could any practical problems arise here? (studies show people from similar backgrounds are more likely to stay together - obviously not always the case.) 4) Friends What kind of friends does this person keep?... does this tell you anything about them? - It should!5) Distance It is true that love knows no bounds but are you willing to travel to see this person - and later on perhaps even move to their are?6) Mutual Attraction Did their body language indicate that they were interested? Did they part with a warm good-bye or a sigh of relief?finally... What to do when someone declines your offer of never-ending love? Avoid the question - "whats wrong with me." You'll probably get what sounds like a load of excuses that leave you asking the wrong questions about yourself - like have i got a problem? - No, the simple fact that people subconciously search for personalities that are on their wavelength and sometimes it takes a while for people to realise they don't fit... If you can figure out incompatibility early on then it saves a lot of heartache. Avoid judging a book by its cover.. Some people take time to show their colours. There may be a whole load of reasons why a person holds back or acts a certain way. Take the time to get to know someone or you'll miss opportunities.