Would you let your doctor boyfriend check your sister?

Maybe your boyfriend is just joking around you. Ask him if he really wants to pursue that field. Ask him why he wants to check your sister out when the time comes that he became a gynecologist. You must ask him prankly what is her motive of doing that.

Yucks... I wouldn't want my boyfriend to check my sister out. I would rather my sister go to another gynae for her check up... Why is your boyfriend saying this kind of joke? Is he trying to make you jealous or what? I would straight up ask him the reason he suddenly bring up the topic of checking my sister up. Is he interested with her? Hmmmmmm...........

I would feel kind of werid about that. Not that my sister has or would mess around with anyone that I have dated.

Yes, why not? If he is a professional, I dont think there is anything to worry about. It is always good to have a doctor in the family.

I think your boy friend is a owner of a goodheart. I am sure that he is saying it only to get you tensed out for a while just for a joke. Its the nature of all good persons. You can trust him. You can make sure that he will never behaves cheap to your sister. According to my opinion, if any one have this like cheap mentality, they never say it out. They feared about, after saying this any one will note him. But in your case he had told you this directly, that means he don't get feared about anyone should note it that implies he will not have thus a cheat mentality. I have a gynecologist friend saying this like joke, i will never let my sister out of him, because its true friendship. Never two man talk like this even they are bestfriends. This type talk is come only from the friendship between a boy and girl. And its come only from the boy's side, as occured in your life. Can you think it vice verse. That is girl saying to her boy friend about his brother. Ha ha ha ha. Anyway thank you for giving me a chance to respond your discussion.....

I do not let he do it.In china,an idiom said"a girl's boy friend is intimated to her sister.It is a joke.

heck no, my husband knows better than to talk like that! but i do wish my hubby was a dr.! : )

why not? if he is a gynecologist and my sister has problem with her reproductive system,yes i will let him check my sister. but not to the point that he will i.e. (internal examination) her. that was so absurd,hahahahah! pardon my words. i let woman gynecologist examine my sister internally, LOL.

i think, i would. dear argie, he is joking obviously and i know how devoted doctors never take intimate parts as actually intimate, they are just like any visible part like eyes and hands...LOL. i am sure he loves you a lot, so don't show him that you are upset. instead, you can always come up with similar repartees.. good luck!!

Your boyfriend is a jerk. If he even jokes like that, he has no respect for you at all. Maybe you should hae a talk with him about this and tell him if he lvoes and repects you, he will stop. To answer your question, i would NEVER let my boyfrind check my sister out if he was a gyno. i would never even date a gyno because i would just not be ok with that.

why on earth would he say something like that. im sorry but if my boyfriend said something like that about my sister id be furious. and would tell him where to go. id be thinking that he fancied her or something. i think hes out of order to say that even if he was only jokking.

you mean to say "check your sister up"? coz if you say check your sister out, then he is like checking her out, admiring her and all those sh.it. but i think you mean check her up coz he is an aspiring doctor. and you say that he said it as a joke, but that's very inconsiderate and insensitibe of him about your feelings.it may be a joke or not, but, words to the wise, you can't throw up what you didn't swallow.

Not if he makes jokes like that!! If I were the sister I wouldn't feel comfortable being checked out by my sister's doctor boyfriend.

there is an absolute fat chance that for me to grant such awkward proposal even if i was a girl and if i had a boyfriend. as for me i'd have asked my girlfriend identically lolz

if you or your sister has a choice then go for someone else who is a female.going to a doctor means looking for someone whom you would be comfortable with.if it bothers the three of you then go find another one.but you would save some money and the confidence is there if he would be the doc.it is all a matter of trust.

If he only say this word for one time ,just ignore it . If always ,you should ask the motive !

I would definately not allow that! I would be questioning him as to why he would say those things and want to? I don't consider that to be a joke one bit if your being hurt by it.

Why not? it's his profession to use what he learned from it and should not be wasted by any means of any reasons that goes unnecessary, like putting on any mind malice when he is about to check some of your keens specially your own sister. It shouldn't be that way, you have to trust the person you love and trust your sister as well and don't let any negative thoughts stay in your mind whenever this things do happen...just stay positive and rather encourage your boyfriend still to be good more in his profession because he is to be responsible to everything he is going to be doing, specially to check out patients.

That's the kind of jokes I would make, really it's just a joke. If you worry it means you are very insecure.

Why don't you let your sister get another OB Gyne for her not your boyfriend...hehehe Im sure your boyfriend is really a joker.