Buying things we dont need or want

@ellie26 (4139)
Malaysia
June 5, 2007 2:01am CST
Did you realise that there are things that we buy but we actually don't really need or want them. You probably bought on expensive food possessor but realised you dont use it because you hate cooking. You have a Gold Cross pen and pencil set that you've never taken out of the box. And even have a gorgeous piece of Samsonite luggage, yet you dont travel. Why do we buy things that we dont need or want? Is it because it a must have or that everyone has it? Or is it a collection, perhaps for own satisfaction? What is the reasons?
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21 responses
• India
5 Jun 07
Yes Ellie, you are right. Many things we buy even which are not of use to use. When we analyse we find that few things are lying as it is and going to be waste. This is because of improper planning before purchasing. When we go to market, first we should make a list prioritywise. This will avoid us to purchase unnecessary things which is just waste of money. I do take care of this. Make a list and buy. Even whenever I feel to buy any new thing which comes to my mind when I am at other work, I pen down it in a notebook. Whenever I visit market I buy. In market we find lot of attractive things to buy but we should avoid.
• India
11 Jun 07
Thanks a lot for consideing my response as best one among others.
@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 07
That the problem with us, improper planning before purchasing. Thanks for your response.
@a_ce_e (1422)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Sometimes i also do the same, I bought a jacket which i think would be useful but only few wear of it, i don't want it anymore. I bought small meat grinder, i am thinking i will be using it often but later on, i prefer ready made ground meat, so it's useless. If i found a thing attractive or cute, i buy it, i am thinking that it will be useful but most of the time not, so it goes to collection area.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 07
Actually when we meant to use it when we bought it. But in the end, we realise that it is time consuming to do it when we can buy something ready made which is much convenient. Thanks for your response.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
5 Jun 07
yaa, i also feel the same. but there arenot too many things that i bought i knew i wont use. may be tghere can be few clothes only.but still i regret also. i think i sud have considered well before i bought those.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 07
Thanks for your response.
@angela2006 (1845)
• China
5 Jun 07
yes,I always bought something that is not necessary actually before,but now I do not.because I do not have much money,I have to save money,so I buy things as few as I can.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 07
Hi angela2006, you are wise to buy only what you need. Thanks for your response.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
I do it sometimes if I saw the product is on sale for future use. But buying it for the real prize and I don't really used it now. NO I will just wait for them to be sale. I don't have enough money to spend to satify me or for just collection. I have lot things to buy and is more important for me so I will buy it first.
@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 07
Hi lynboobsy11, I think you are right. We have to be smart when comes to buying things. Otherwise it will just go to a waste. Thanks for your response.
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• United States
5 Jun 07
I have a lot of things like this. For the most part they seemed like a good idea at the time, but get no love later. A few things I always intended to use later.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 07
Hello silvernutbar. Sometimes we just like to buy thing on an impulse. When we have it then we realise we dont use it. Thanks for your response.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
6 Jun 07
for own satisfaction which is proven to be useless at all. i love to buy clothes and i do it all the time. even if i know i can't wear them anymore since i have lots of them already. even some do still have tags on them, i just can't stop buying some other clothes. i just love clothes and i realiazed it is a very useless hobby since i will just end up having too much clothes which i can't actually wear at all. now, i am regretting why i bought lots of them. here in the philippines, the wear is usually warm and so, most of my clothes are sleeveless or tank tops. and i will be migrating to sweden soon to be with my boyfriend and i won't be needing those sexy tops anymore. sad to say that most of them will be left here in the philippines. how i wish i did not buy all those clothes at all.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 07
Hi maryannemax, we women like to buy clothes even if we dont really need it. It is like a collection. Happy migrating maryannemax and thanks for your response.
@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
6 Jun 07
If I buy something and for some reason don't use it or wear it. I end up putting it up on freecycle. I don't leave things lying around my house that I don't or my family don't use. I have a tendacy to pass it along to someone else who can use it. I had spending money on something that I or my family can't use.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
6 Jun 07
that's what i am going to do with the clothes which i won't be bringing along. i will pass them to people and friends i know of who will fit into my size. it's better if people can use it than let it just stay inside the wardrobe cabinet.
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
i buy things i want even if i dont need them. i dont / i never buy things i dont want. :)
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 07
Ok. Thanks for your response.
@fidainc (410)
• Singapore
5 Jun 07
Its called impulse purchasing blame it on the marketing ply... you should be able to recognise it. Its called "SALE"! I also blame eBay... LOL :P
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• Switzerland
5 Jun 07
Sometimes you buy because you like it a lot and many times due to others. Some people want to buy things for the future, so that they need not go looking for it when they need it. But, the most common reason is that, people like to do shopping and blow money;) After all the hard work, they want to feel that it was worth the effort.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 07
Agree. Thanks for your response.
@unishwetabh (1031)
• India
5 Jun 07
I have never smoked in my life and will never do it. But still i buy lighters. I love those stylish lighters. Let it be as expensive as 400 bucks but still i buy it. But i never need it.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 07
Hi unishwetabh, I see that you are a collector of lighters. It is good that you dont smoke. Thanks for your response.
@mexshyl (878)
• China
5 Jun 07
Hi, ellie26. Yeah, I do realize this kind of situations after its happening most of the time. I think it's quite probable for us to buy something which we don't need or want. As for me, this will happen when I need it eagerly or just act on impulse. However, there do exists those who just wanna follow others no matter what they're short of. Just my own opinions. :) Have a good day! ^_^
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 07
Hello mexshyl. It always the case, buying on an impulse. Thanks for your response.
@golfproo (1839)
• Canada
5 Jun 07
I think everyone tends to do this at one point or another. I am not quite sure why...probably compulsion. Basically, shopping and spending money makes people feel better about themselves. People will always follow that which makes them feel good.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 07
Hi golfproo, sometimes our heart rules us more than our thinking. Thanks for your response.
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
these things that are not used are needs .we bought them because there is a need for us to have it and just simply to have it and telling ourselves that we might have some use for it in the future.
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@aj2006 (1534)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
Maybe because they have the money to splurge.. On my part, I watch what I buy for I believe that I have to spent what is due, not spend because it's for collection or whatever reason. If you are on a tight budget, It's impossible to buy what you don't need anymore, however some save to buy stuff they don't even need.. It's a satisfaction on them.
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@jalbeos (1175)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
I am learning to use my money wisely. I agree that I bought things that wasn't really important. I am living alone right now and using my money wisely is always in my head. I saw some real good stuffs somewhere but I want think over what things I really needed.
• Fiji
6 Jun 07
I have also bought many cookware and silverware which I have hardly used I do realize that its useless wasting all that money. I make up my mind everytim I shop not to do that again but I start craving to buy it as soon as I see it which makes me feel guilty not to buy it..
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• India
5 Jun 07
IT is the mentality of most of the people that they tend to get attracted with the word SALE.I was passing through the the market suddenly I saw sale was put up in a crockery shop. I bought so many bowls, cutlery expensive dinner sets, glasses, serving trays.I was so much busy shopping that I didn't realise the things I'm buying I alredy have so many at home.Before going for shopping we should always plan first.We should shop by logic & not by merely getting attracted to sale.SPEND WISELY.
@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 07
Hi earningemoney, yes I believe so some people buy because it was on sale. But there are also people who just buy whatever caught their eyes. Thanks for your response.
@avea3399 (59)
• United States
6 Jun 07
I went to the eye doctor and he told me i need glasses because i had little stingmistism. So my dad told me should he buy the glasses for me i told him to buy it but i never wanted it and i never wore it yet.
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