What if you give up your friendship with a friend?
By teretecho5
@teretecho5 (190)
United States
June 5, 2007 5:10am CST
Scenario:
Let A represent as my friend and B as you.
A always confide on B bout his/her problem with his/her lovelife and B as A's friend keep on saying encouragement words and giving advices but A never listen. That scenario will continue over and over again. A will ask for advice but will never listen. It comes to the point that B almost gave up with his/her friendship with A. Year past still same scenario.
How would you react with this scenario? If you are B, how would yo deal with A?
2 responses
@kyutstudph (1263)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Yes sometimes its annoying that people keep on seeking for your advice over and over again and yet he/she never listens. May i share some sentiments with you about a good friend of mine always asking me for advice about his lovelife for almost 5 years already but still he never applies what I told her. It is really disappointing but I should understand her because I believe that someday will come my friend will realize that all my advices are really applicable. I am just here for her as a friend and always listens. I think that is the essence of being a good friend, I just respect her decision as long as it will never affects our friendship.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
there are people who loves to talk about their problems but never listen to advices, they just want to hear what they want to hear. but B sounds like a good friend... he shouldnt give up on A be always there at A's side thats what friends really are. being a friend doesnt mean that ill take and follow all your advice. being a friend means always be there at your friends side.
