who do you prefer your bestfriend or your boyfriend?

I guess this is just like asking u to choose between ur dad or ur mum... But since ur best friend is a guy, then tats a different case... He most probably felt insecure, thus for such acts... I mean... Hes a guy, ur best friend is a guy too.. Just put urself in his situation, would u understand or would u expect him to choose too? Perhaps u are too close with ur best friends thus the jealousy occurs? I guess u should talk to ur bf... Tell him hes the only one u love... Let things out it might be better... =)

My advice is to ALWAYS choose the one who is not making you choose. If somebody genuinely cares for you, they would never force you to choose something like that. It may be tough to do, but you cannot allow yourself to be controlled like that. If your boyfriend gives you reasons to not hang out with your best friend, valid reasons, then that is a different scenario. Being FORCED to choose is inexcusible - even if he's right.

Maybe you're boyfriend's being insecure. Spend more time the three of you together. You're boyfriend should learn to trust your guy best friend so he would be complacent even if you're alone with your guy friend. The only cure for this is for them to be best of friends too.

I don't think that your boyfriend loves you if he asks you to choose between him and your best friend. Anyway I would choose the best friend . Friends are for all the life, boyfriends....for a season

This is just my opinion ok? Maybe because you spent a lot of time talking to or going out with your best friend instead of your bf that's why he is like that or maybe because you do tell most of your problems to your best friend than to your bf that's why he feels that you don't trust him or that he cannot be trusted at all. I think you should talk to your bf about that or ask him why does he feels like that and give him assurance that you trust him a lot and that you love him the most.

It should never be neccessary to choose between them--- I would however ask the man why he's forcing the issue. I can think of several reasons: 1) He wants more time with you. 2) He's feeling like he is not a priority in your life. 3) He is a control freak. 4) He does not like her, and does not want to be around her. There are probably more, but, well, can you go into more detail, or even ask him, hey what are you feeling and what brought you to this point? If you can't ask him that, then you have greater problems than this decision.

i rather choose my bestfriend!! if your boyfriend really love you he wouldn't put you in that situation .maybe he's jealous with your bestfriend