what comes first in your mind when you hear the word SEXY?

Im not a dude, but I can give you my opinion. Hold up, are you sexist? lol Just kidding. But anyways females are always known to be very opinionated so the first thing that comes in my mind when I hear sexy I think of confidence. When soemone is feeling confident, they feel good about themselves and it brings a sense of sexyness about them. Hope this helps.

the way someone talks, walks and dresses are some ways to consider when talking about sexiness. if she can carry herself and maintains the good traits or personality a woman should be regardless of the circumstances then i consider her sexy. confidence and respect are two important aspects to look at. you may not be physically attractive but if you manage to talk with substance, walk with confidence and dress up with decency these are 'extra attractions' to value with. as one author says, 'beauty catches attention, personality catches the heart.'