lost and cofused- the life I thought was mine has been shattered and torn apart

United States
October 23, 2006 1:39pm CST
Don't know which way to turn anymore. Husband cheated after 10yrs of marriage. I still feel like i'm still in the dark about things.I feel like she's more important that me.Its hard for me to let go because i'm scared that its not over like he says it is. Is home where he really wants to be or is he here for other reasons like kids.He is the love of my life but does his heart still belong only to me now or does he have regrets of staying.Its been almost a yr that it has been over but it still hurts like yesterday.Don't want to push him away if he's behonest by living this everyday but scared that I'm going to get hurt again. let go of the past or let go of him?????/
2 responses
claudia413
@claudia413 (4280)
• United States
24 Oct 06
You both should get counseling. Be sure to keep the lines of communication open between the two of you. I hope it all works out okay for you. God bless.
bfa731
@bfa731 (409)
• United States
24 Oct 06
I agree, counseling as well as communication is the key to solve this big problem. I believe in second chances and if you truly love your husband then he deserves another chance. With a little help you can overcome your problems.
bhchy1
@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
24 Oct 06
you need to confront him..if he doesn't know the answer ask him to seek counseling and you will remain as is until he knows...I can't tell you what will happen in your case...but most men choose to stay with their wife.