a hero?
By zandi458
@zandi458 (28102)
Malaysia
June 6, 2007 1:57am CST
How do you feel when you take time and effort to respond to a discussion and all you get is 'hehehe or lol as a reply. I feel disgusted and a waste of my time. He is making a mockery of my response. This particular person is a popular figure here and getting a lot of responses on most of his discussions.. He doesn't appreciate your response and only trying to make a fool out of those who responded to his digusting discussions. He thought getting tons of response makes him a hero here and don't even bother to give a decent reply.
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12 responses
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
I know how it feels... it happens to me I think twice...when I made a lot of efforts to make a good response in the discussion... I was expecting that Ill be reading a comment that is fir enough for my effort but I was really disappointed to read a "hehehe" cmment... i thought that he has nothing to say... but when it happen again... i decided not to response in his discussions anymore not unless I find no interesting topic and I am in the mood to response.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
yes, just skip his discussions. perhaps he need not get anything anymore from our kind. there are already plenty coming for him. i have this habit of keeping away from discussions where i feel that there is no need for me to be around there.
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@samson1967 (7414)
• India
7 Jun 07
Hi zandy, He his very young, and now he is gone back to school. You know very well that young ones love fun. He was here and going to be here only to have fun. Dont take it into hearts. I am sure His EYES will pop out seeing your discussion.
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@samson1967 (7414)
• India
7 Jun 07
Hope so, he will reform after going through this discussion.
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@revdauphinee (5703)
• United States
6 Jun 07
how do i feel when this happend I consider the source then i ignore it some folks are just igorant we cant change em!
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
6 Jun 07
I know exactly who you are talking about.He is young so i would suggest not to respond to his discussions then.If i dont have a comment to a reply to my discussion then sometimes i will atleast say thank you because sometimes i find myself repeating the same as i told the other members.Dont let it get to you.It'll be okay.smile
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
that will be disappointing of course. no one among us will feel that we deserve just something like that in return. we are doing some good efforts at responding and then we get told only that we had posted something that tickles. oh, well...just take it easy. now, do not make responses anymore to his discussions if he makes you feel that odd. perhaps it is his way of letting you know that he has not much to say with hte responses that he is getting from you.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 07
Mind you this is not only me getting that kind of response but 9 out of 10 will get this kind of answer.Probably that is his style who doesn't value people's opinion. I treasure friendship and value their contribution towards my discussion so I make it a point to attend to all who responded to my topics even it takes me a bit longer to get around but I still make an effort to personalise my presence. Mylot is a two way traffic, you just can't ignore it. Be it short and simple, getting the message clear and loud is what makes the discussion interesting.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
6 Jun 07
don't let him bother you, just report to mylot. a laugh is not a response, even if your topic is a joke. it has to say other things, not yes or no or laughs. usually mylot will consider before deleting, so it's best for you to report it and let them decide
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
7 Jun 07
Well i do know who you are talking about, and i do know that it is important for him to response to our response, even if he does not have anything to say to us. He feels that people will know that he is reading their responses if he will make a certain response back.
The last thing that he wants is to make fun of us or mock us.
Yes there are certain times that his technique, does not work. But he never meant to make us feel the way that you wrote here.
About responses to my responses.
Yes there are alote of times that i am actually waiting for the person to read it and tell me what he thinks, to turn it to an interesting dialogue, and that does not happen and yes i am disappointed when it happens.
So i can say that i do agree with what you said in general, but specific about this person, i have a hard time agreeing with you.
@JackBravo (970)
• United States
6 Jun 07
ooooh...gossip...what's his name?? it's not like you're going to get booted for saying it. it's a freelot, yourlot, and mylot.
c'mon who is it? ;p
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