a hero?

@zandi458 (28102)
Malaysia
June 6, 2007 1:57am CST
How do you feel when you take time and effort to respond to a discussion and all you get is 'hehehe or lol as a reply. I feel disgusted and a waste of my time. He is making a mockery of my response. This particular person is a popular figure here and getting a lot of responses on most of his discussions.. He doesn't appreciate your response and only trying to make a fool out of those who responded to his digusting discussions. He thought getting tons of response makes him a hero here and don't even bother to give a decent reply.
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@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
I know how it feels... it happens to me I think twice...when I made a lot of efforts to make a good response in the discussion... I was expecting that Ill be reading a comment that is fir enough for my effort but I was really disappointed to read a "hehehe" cmment... i thought that he has nothing to say... but when it happen again... i decided not to response in his discussions anymore not unless I find no interesting topic and I am in the mood to response.
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• Philippines
7 Jun 07
yes, just skip his discussions. perhaps he need not get anything anymore from our kind. there are already plenty coming for him. i have this habit of keeping away from discussions where i feel that there is no need for me to be around there.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 07
When I get this kind of comment once I still feel alright but as I go on responding discussions from the same guy and getting the same response, I feel irritated. I just skip his discussion from my email.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
6 Jun 07
Alot of them just give those kind of answers that fill up my inbox. I read them first if I dont want to reply I dont
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
7 Jun 07
I agree with you ! and I have seen that on one that all the said was thanks on ever responce I know it take time to write more and if they have hundreds of responces maybe thats all the time they have but not just hehehehehe
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 07
I don't mind if they write one complete sentence or one word with meaning but not that kind of remarks over and over again. It just make me sick.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
6 Jun 07
Alot of them just give those kind of answers that fill up my inbox. I read them first if I dont want to reply I dont
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@samson1967 (7414)
• India
7 Jun 07
Hi zandy, He his very young, and now he is gone back to school. You know very well that young ones love fun. He was here and going to be here only to have fun. Dont take it into hearts. I am sure His EYES will pop out seeing your discussion.
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• India
7 Jun 07
Hope so, he will reform after going through this discussion.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 07
I am sure you are one of the victim who gets this repetitive response as you point blank at him accurately. I do hope he sees this discussion and the comments made by mylotters and realise that we don't agree to his childish way of responding.
• United States
6 Jun 07
how do i feel when this happend I consider the source then i ignore it some folks are just igorant we cant change em!
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• United States
6 Jun 07
good for you!
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 07
He don't seem to value others response. I will just ignore him next time.
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@paywise (500)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 07
I don't like a person like that. So, I never response a discussion that they made. Sure, Wasting a time and make me fool too.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 07
yes, they are taking people's time. Even with one line of reply will make us appreciated, isn't.
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
6 Jun 07
I know exactly who you are talking about.He is young so i would suggest not to respond to his discussions then.If i dont have a comment to a reply to my discussion then sometimes i will atleast say thank you because sometimes i find myself repeating the same as i told the other members.Dont let it get to you.It'll be okay.smile
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 07
Your guess might be right and I sure you have also been a victim of this hehehe. Well I am also exhaused with ideas sometimes when replying to those who response to my discussions and I do understand if it is something short but sweet response.
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
that will be disappointing of course. no one among us will feel that we deserve just something like that in return. we are doing some good efforts at responding and then we get told only that we had posted something that tickles. oh, well...just take it easy. now, do not make responses anymore to his discussions if he makes you feel that odd. perhaps it is his way of letting you know that he has not much to say with hte responses that he is getting from you.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 07
Mind you this is not only me getting that kind of response but 9 out of 10 will get this kind of answer.Probably that is his style who doesn't value people's opinion. I treasure friendship and value their contribution towards my discussion so I make it a point to attend to all who responded to my topics even it takes me a bit longer to get around but I still make an effort to personalise my presence. Mylot is a two way traffic, you just can't ignore it. Be it short and simple, getting the message clear and loud is what makes the discussion interesting.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
6 Jun 07
don't let him bother you, just report to mylot. a laugh is not a response, even if your topic is a joke. it has to say other things, not yes or no or laughs. usually mylot will consider before deleting, so it's best for you to report it and let them decide
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 07
All along he has been doing this kind of childish and stupid answers to everyone who responded to his discussions. One day someone will notice it and highlight it. I am still keeping my cool and will not jeopardise his popularity here.
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
7 Jun 07
Well i do know who you are talking about, and i do know that it is important for him to response to our response, even if he does not have anything to say to us. He feels that people will know that he is reading their responses if he will make a certain response back. The last thing that he wants is to make fun of us or mock us. Yes there are certain times that his technique, does not work. But he never meant to make us feel the way that you wrote here. About responses to my responses. Yes there are alote of times that i am actually waiting for the person to read it and tell me what he thinks, to turn it to an interesting dialogue, and that does not happen and yes i am disappointed when it happens. So i can say that i do agree with what you said in general, but specific about this person, i have a hard time agreeing with you.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 07
It is only my feeling. Since he is receiving many responses to his discussions he is only trying to be polite by acknowledging their responses which is comentable but his techiniques of doing it does not go down well with me.
@JackBravo (970)
• United States
6 Jun 07
ooooh...gossip...what's his name?? it's not like you're going to get booted for saying it. it's a freelot, yourlot, and mylot. c'mon who is it? ;p
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 07
You'll soon find out. Hehehe has become his trademark here. Its for the good of mylot when everyone give quality discussions and responses.
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@forisuru (217)
• Sri Lanka
7 Jun 07
Dear Friend, Actually your irritation is fair in anypoint of view. But the truth you have to undestand is that there are very few people who respect friednship in this world. Thanks.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 07
I agree with you. Friendship is hard to foster let alone getting respect.