love or career?
By jazmin08
@jazmin08 (173)
Philippines
9 responses
@ergg78 (344)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 07
:) love in general is always the greatest priority of all. Without love you will not live a happy life. You will not have the career if you do not love it. But speaking about lovelife, which mean a girlfriend and boyfriend relationship, that means it is not yet bind together through marriage.. it is always best to give a priority to career. i have a friend who once told me that he will not response to his acceptance letter to college because he want to secure his relationship with his girlfriend first (his first girlfriend). Being his friend i told him that he is still young and anything could happen to their relationship so i said go further your studies. Now, he was happy that he went to college. so, i guess, it's a matter of what the situation is over your love or career conflict. The best way is to be enlighten yourself and be wise.
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
I guess if im still very young i will choose career since I have to fulfill my dreams for myself and family... later on if I found the right one for me... I would gladly give up my career and then I choose lovelife... One of the reason is that Im a woman...and here in our country...there is a tradition(but now its a choice of the couple) that a woman once married...stays at home and take care of the house and the family. I guess its just fine since i believe that being in charge of the house..taking care of my husband and the kids is a job greater than any other career. so with my choice I guess never loose my career...
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
6 Jun 07
For right now I have chosen to pursue my career and not pursue finding love. I have waited all my life to go after my dream and it takes so much time that I wouldn't expect anyone to feel like they are being ignored while I work.
@tamskie (388)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
If I were to choose between love and career I will choose love. You can never bring your career in heaven and without your love one you can never enjoy your career. Because we all know that people make good careers not just for theirselves but for the sake of love.
@fellowlife (988)
• Nigeria
6 Jun 07
i guess i would choose my career cause without the money how could i get to take care of my love. I believe for me love can wait not cause i have to make something out of my life and i believe no matter the time i am ready i would always meet the person my life has been destined with
@joimarquez (1836)
• United States
6 Jun 07
i would choose my career. love can wait and can happen whenever but your career dont just happen. it knock once if you miss it then you'll have to start from the bottom again.
@Superfluous (284)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
What's more important for me as of now is career. I need to save myself first in order to survive and have a great life. I do want to live a nice life and that I really need money, also I didn't spend 15 years of my life in school learning just to have no career or so.. there will time for love life and that we do need to have that of course, I don't want to be rich but then lonely at the same time. that's to sad.. :( So I want to fix my life in a good and happy ways. :)