marriage

@kawaii24 (520)
Australia
June 6, 2007 4:27am CST
Nowadays, I know a lot of people like me that doesnt want to get married. We rather have a child than a husband...so what do you think about it?
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7 responses
@Madona1 (2096)
• Gibraltar
6 Jun 07
I think the thought of having a child rather than a husband is bit of selfish as children need a father and mother. It will be unhealthy for children to grow up in a single parent's family, which will affect them the rest of their life. I remember a three-year-old boy asked his mother why she didn't marry her father although his parent lived together since he was born. The word 'family' in children's views is the same. What they want is to have a secure, happy and care family. Therefore, from my personal point of view, it is better to get marry, then have children will be the best and ideal option. Unfortunately life is not easy. Finding a soulmate to live forever is not easy at all. We only can try our best and give the best if possible for our off-spring.
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@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
7 Jun 07
Thank you for your response.
@mymytri (2030)
• India
6 Jun 07
hi kawaii24.i think to become a complete man/woman he/she should get married and have children and have to enjoy every part of life.every human need their mate to live happily ,have fun,share their feelings ,emotions,thoughts and children need both mother and father.my grand ma always says mother is love and father is care....a child needs both of them to grow up healthy and wise
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@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
7 Jun 07
What a wise woman your grandma is...I guess I agree with her. Children needs their parents however, I have seen sooo much broken marriages that's why I'd rather have a child than a husband that will only inflict pain for both of us. Anyway, thank you for your response. :)
• Nigeria
6 Jun 07
well for me i think i would want to get married as there's no joy in the world than been a father or a mother. For people that don't want the marriage aspect at times i wonder why? People have come to see marriage these days as a union you just come in and make the babies and then you walk out of. Its not meant to be so, marriage is like a sacred institution which should not be played with anyhow.
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@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
7 Jun 07
I agree with you that the marriage is sacred. However, just like you've said a lot of people dont care about it anymore and they just wanted to have a child...so I guess the best way for it was to have a children and not be married. Any way, thank you for your comment. :)
@steerforth (1797)
• Italy
6 Jun 07
I don't know what to think because I would like to get married one day. Not now, but one day yes.
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@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
7 Jun 07
Good luck in finding your special someone :)
@dentidle (293)
• Switzerland
6 Jun 07
As far as i am concerned, kids need both parents. Being a mom myself, i have noticed my kid being very happy when both the parents are around. Of course, he loves us both. But, having both of us around means fun time to him and that is too too obvious. I hope, most of the kids expect this and marriage is the special bond that keeps the partners together available for their kids.
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
7 Jun 07
thats one side of the argument I suppose. However, what if the guy is a total jerk, isnt it better to just raise the kid by yourself? Any way, am happy that it works out for you though..God Bless in your family :)
@yemberzal (301)
• India
6 Jun 07
When we see universe around us, all all duty bound.Nature is at its work. Summer, spring ,autumn,winter these four seasons make the reproduction of fruit and flower possible and no one disobeys. Then talk of wild,tammed animals, they reproduce their kind. They never try to break the circle. Now comes term of man. Man is haywan natiq means animal who can talk. Only the talking quality makes him some what different from animal kingdom. See this mammal develops from a tiny droplet, and when grows thinks him or herself the wise among all and try to do natural and unnatural things.lesbian,gays, and people who do not marry ,if out number the people who believe in man woman relations, the life will take halt and within 100 yrs , there will be new born and man will extinguish from the plannet
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
7 Jun 07
thanks :)
@sandeep_t (428)
• India
6 Jun 07
I dont want either a wife or a child
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
7 Jun 07
Thank you for your response :)