Would you help someone although he/she doesn't like you?

Romania
June 6, 2007 1:11pm CST
Would you be able to help someone even if they don't like you or they say bad things about you? I haven't thought about it until now, when my boyfriend proves he's superior to others by doing this. My parents have never liked him much and they have never agreed completely with our relationship, don't ask me why because after 4 years I don't get to understand it either... And despite all the tries they have given to make me quit this relationship and all the ugly words they've said, he still helps them unconditionally whenever they need and it's in his power. I really admire him for this as there are few people who can do it. After all, he doesn't feel obliged to do anything as they have never done anything similar. I'm not saying my parents ask him to help them but don't want him by my side, as they haven't ever asked him a favour...or maybe just once or twice... And he still helps them. I once asked him why he's doing it and he gave me enough clues to realize that he is doing all this for me, because he loves me... You see, these things he does make me feel loved and appreciated and make me love him more everyday... Have you ever done this? Have you ever helped someone who never liked you and didn't want you around?
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• China
7 Jun 07
hi friend,your article impressed me too much,cause i was just aparted with my girlfriend,now i miss her very much. yes, that's power of love,the strongest power in the world.if i were your boyfriend,i would also do it like that.it's not favour, but the true love that i want to get from you. maybe somebody would hold such a mind that unless i can get the payment, i won't help anyone which is not my obligation.but i don't agree to it.dos and don'ts both depend on how you think about it,how it can make you happy if you do it.i like your boyfriend, he proved what love is. please accept him~~~~
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• Romania
7 Jun 07
I know that what he is doing is not a favour but true love and that is why I love him so dearly. I do accept him, as I love him so much. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.