are you comfortable when some of your friends rummage through your bag?
By jlara_gtr34
@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
Philippines
June 6, 2007 7:41pm CST
okay, i know this might be applicable only to girls, but if guys can relate also to this, then what the heck, you may answer this!;0
there are times when im out with my girl friends and then sometimes, it gets kinda boring, and they resort to rummaging one another's bag.:P sometimes, i am "in" for this, but sometimes, i am in the mood of privacy and i dont want someone else rummaging through my bag, asking me "Whats this and whats that" every time they see a product like a lipstick, perfume, etc. its like an inspector or detective or something like that!;0
so, what about you? are you comfortable when other people rummage through your stuff/bag?;0
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6 responses
@cuteyasoi17 (155)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
I am comfortable when some of my close friends rummage through my bag..i dont care on what they would see or discover coz we share everything..I even dont care when they read my msgs in my cellphone..unless if it was my mother who's rummaging my bag..oh god no way!
@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
hi there! ;0
i think i was like that in high school because me and my friends were so close already, we were together since we were kids. but now that i am in college, i have different set of friends, and its not that i dont trust them but you know, we havent known each other that long and i am still a bit shy with them. ;0 lolz.
how about your mother? you are keepong secrets from her, right? ;p why dont you want your mom to rummage through your bag? lolz. ;0
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@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
7 Jun 07
Indeed I know a lot of girls doing that but I don't do that with my friends and they don't do that with me. I think we respect each other's privacy and I don't really feel comfortable with people looking/ finding things inside my bag, I would feel that my privacy is invaded. It's not like I don't trust my friends and think they would steal something. But I just don't like the feeling. It would be different if I lay the stuff in front of their eyes and let them look, I would be very happy and in good mood to explain the stuff. But otherwise, I wouldn't like it.
@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
hi there! ;0
yeah, i so agree with you wondericequeen. its not that i dont trust my friends or something, but there is just this urge of me to have some privacy to myself. and for me, my bag is really very private. ;0
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@mjgarcia (725)
• United States
7 Jun 07
No, I don't care for it at all. If I say please get this or that out of my purse, that's one thing - but I don't even like my husband rummaging through my bag. To me its one of the few places of privacy that I have left. Besides, I never know what I'll have in there. :)
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@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
hi there! ;0
yes, you are right.
that is how i feel too.
i myself dont even know what stuffs i had put in my bag,
and it would be quite embarassing if my friends would find out something in my bag which isnt supposed to be there! ;0 lolz. ;0
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@YoungInLove (1254)
• Canada
7 Jun 07
Depends whats in there. I dont necessarily want my boyfriend looking around if I have tampons or something that could embarass me in there.
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@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
hi there! ;0
i have had that experience already, when my boyfriend was rummaging through my bag and he found a napkin pad inside! ;0
he asked me what it was, he asked if it was a sandwich. lolz. ;0 i had to tell the truth while blushing so mad. haha! ;0 i learned my lesson the hard way. ;0
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@fly_shay (333)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
It's ok for me if the situation is really that one like we are talking about somethings in the bag or discussing about beauty tips or things. But if they would only do that without any preparatory discussion, then it's not good.
