friends in love

@maean_19 (4655)
Philippines
June 6, 2007 10:17pm CST
Would you consider a guy friend to become your boyfriend someday? What about your best guy friend becoming your boyfriend?
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
7 Jun 07
Well I have tried to have a relationship with a guy who was my best friend for three years, unfortunately it didn't work out! When our relationship ended so did our friendship, so I don't think that I would ever go through that again, seeing as how I would rather have the frienship than the relationship....Simly because the frienship can last a lifetime as opposed to the possibility of the relationship ending anyday.
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
yes very much that is much safer hence you already know him... and love starts with frenships ryt?
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
7 Jun 07
I did date one of my best guy friends, we got married and now we are mortal enemies. When you are hurt so deeply by someone you consider a friend and have such a long history with, it is much more difficult to forgive. When you are dating someone that you don't know so personally and it ends, it hurts but not quite as deeply as it would have if you were such good friends and shared so much previous to the relationship. Because not only are you losing a relationship, you are losing one of your best friends.
• United States
7 Jun 07
My fiance was one of my very good friends before we started dating. We would chat online for hours and hours, just about every night. By doing so, we realized that we had a lot in common, and decided to date to see if it would work out. A year later, and we're engaged, planning to get married when he graduates from college!
@miaolin (397)
• China
7 Jun 07
I think my love will be started with good friends.I can't accept the first of love.It's unrelaible. One important factor is the feel between two people.Although they are good friends,no that kind of feel,it isn't a deal. I have had a try.One of my good guy friends expressed to me and before that we chatted every night,went to library together and even went to shopping.But I'm not sure whether I love him or not.So I decided to have a try.Finally,I found I can't accept him at all.He is not the kind of person that I want.The point is that I have no that kind of feel.As a result,I rejected him.In a long period,we didn't talk to each other.It seems that we were full of hatred in our hearts.With the help of time,any hatred will be vanished.Now we could be the friends as before. So we should distinguish the feel with just a friend and with a good guy friend who can be your boyfriend.
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
It really depends on what you are feeling for the person, wether he is your best friend or just a friend. Some realtionshsips starts with friendship, some just as they say "love at first sight"(this is not always true). If your feelings for your guy friend is more than a friend, well maybe yes. But if not well if I were to be asked, I will answer no becuase there are two reasons: 1.You'll be losing a great friend or it will never be the same again. 2.Either you'll be friends still or not.