Are you vindictive?

I do not really think that I am vindictive....although, my husband tells me all of the time that I am an "evil woman".....LOL I do think that what goes around comes around and usually gathers steam..... Do not misunderstand...there have been times when "karma" got the offender back and when I heard of it....I have to say that I had to smile...guess my hubby is right.....EVIL....just plain EVIL.....LMAO

I believe what goes around comes around-good or bad. I also believe the best revenge is to live well-some very wise person said that once. Why just get even when you can rise above it? Someone else very wise said, "As long as you're holding grudges, your hands are too full to receive anything good."

I most definitely believe in karma and what you reap, you will sow. Been there and done that. I've been the one hurt and I've hurt others. I prefer neither however, I'm not perfect and I always try not to hurt anyone.

I am the type of person that if a person wrongs me I don't forget.I can forgive, but I will shun the person and not have anything to do with them...because if I do I will probably blow like a volcano and tell them exactly as it is...not a pretty site...sometimes my anger has even scared me...lol

Can I be both? Depends on the situation. I do believe what goes around comes around, but sometimes I wouldn't mind speeding up the process ;) Although usually I take the sit and wait approach, although it can be hard!

I think i'm a person believe in karma. And in my opinion too, in the era of everything is instant. Karma doesn't wait until the peson die and his/her children or grandchildren get " what comes around goes around". karma kind of keep up with the pace too...so no need to get even! LOL

OOhh good question- I would like to say Both! I think if someone does me so wrong--- like a old boyfriend- I believe that it is great if I get even- lol Go out with his friend- Of course this doesn't happen anymore- Back when I was younger- But if someone is mean to me-- I believe Karma will get them back- I don't get even- I don't put myself in that situation to let it happen to me again- I have seen Karma-- I prefer good karma on my end- I try to follow the golden rule from Elementary school- "treat others the way you want to be treated"... so good karma comes back! I can't lie though I have gotten even a few times- when I was younger and a hothead!

I believe that you reap what you sow. If you mistreat someone, it will come back on you in some way. I admit there are many times I want to get even, but 2 wrongs don't make a right. I want to do the right thing and TRY to forgive them and go on. That is definately not always easy!