would you forgive your partner if he/she cheats on you?

nope... i wudnt....cheatin is not worth of ne mercy.... no need to b creul to him/her....but the very fact that they cheated is impossible to live with....its the worst kind of attack to ur trust n faith....n commitment too 4giv them...but don 4get that it happened....n leave them...let them decide wat they did was right or wrong...i feel nothing in this world cant b sorted out...so they shud hv talked to u abt it rather than go out n cheat.... i hate such ppl...cant stand them... one mistake can cause tremoundous pain to others...they suhd hv realised this...relation is not one person....they hv a resposibility to u too...they cant tk decisions abt the relation without u knowin...

I will forgive him as you say nobody's perfect.Mistakes tends to happens and people misunderstand infactuation as love.It would be difficult to bring that trust back but time will heal the wounds and everything would be fine if he has changed and won't do that mistake again..

Well since i am romantic at heart who is loyal and trustworthy. I expect the same from other person. I agree nobody's perfect. But that doesnot give anybody license to play with one's feelings. If person doesn't care and cheats he or she is not trustworthy and should be DUMPED. Only the most stupid will give second chance as it will open up endless possibilies of being cheated again and you being heartbroken and feeling like a loser. I value myself too much too get into that sort of situation.

no of course not . . he already cheated on me why should i forgive him

I maybe forgive him for the second chance but if he'll do it again,Sorry! that's too much..

Dear Friend, I have to give a one chance if i truely love her...Isn't it. But remember i'm going to give only one chance. IF she can't learn from her mistake...then she is not loving me. Thanks

yes,you are right,it deponds on the situation.however, i want to know why he cheated me ? if he cheated me for my advantage, i would forgive him.

If ever my partner cheats on me, yes, I will forgive him. But that doesn't mean that I will still stay with him or get back to him. I can't do just that. Paranoia will hunt me like hell and I can't bear being paranoid forever. Like I often said, loving someone without fully trusting him is hard enough. And besides, cheating you partner doesn't belong under the category of love. If your partner cheats on you, he/she must haven't loved you at all. It could be just attraction, care or anything but love that he/she feels for you. Oh and yeah, that happened to me before. And we're now living separate lives. See? :)

I guess the saying once bitten twice shy appears true to me... If im cheated once, why should i give him the chance to hurt me again? Yah, its confusing coz of love.. but if he loves me, he wouldnt hurt me... He should be more then mature and sensitive to do that... If he cant even be nice, i cant expect more out of that.. Its hard to gain back the trust he lost...

No I wouldn't. Not because I think I shouldn't or something, just because I could never trust him again even if I wanted to...

depends on the situation...maybe once but you should set your limits and he/she should prove that you made the right dicision...

Yes it is ok to forgive your partner but never accept anymore.

I would say yes. It happened to me so many times before but I would still say yes. I don't know why...but I know I have my own limit and when I can't stand it anymore, I will just pack my bag and say goodbye. Once I made my decision, no one else could change it, not even if someone begs me to forgive him.