what will you do if you learn that your bestfriend's boyfriend is inlove w/ you?
By veighn3000
@veighn3000 (2)
June 7, 2007 12:15am CST
My bestfriend's boyfriend is inlove w/ me. he told me that he loves me and he is sorry for what he feels. I am spechless because i never expected that to happen even in a dream. I only see him as a friend and brother. I didn't tell to my bestfriend about it. Im afraid to hurt her. But i feel guilty. what am i gonna do? avoid my bestfriend and her boyfriend? or tell the truth to my bestfriend?
3 responses
@clamee (63)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
as for the guy tell him that you don't have any romantic feelings for him..and if you think that he's already bugging you and talking to him doesn't work tell now to your bestfriend
don't avoid your bestfriend instead you talk to her about that matter. tell her what's going on so that she would also know what to do. it would be a problem if they happen to break up and she would find out that the reason of their break up is you.(since her bf is in loved with you)
a possibility that she'll think that you stole her bf.
so talk to your bestfriend.. that's a way for you to prevent some problems that might come.. good luck ^^
@elshaddai123 (3981)
• Kottayam, India
7 Jun 07
Welcome to myLot.
SAY TO HIM SORRY NO VACANCY,AND LOVE IS NOT THAT CHEAP.
@pixelledsoul (99)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
gee!! what a dilemma.. For the first place, is he really inlove with his girlfriend for him to feel that way?
I knew exactly what you feel coz it also happened to me.. not only once.. but twice!
What I did is that I started confronting my bestfriend eventhough it's so uneasy for me to do so.. But what can I do? She's my bestfriend.. I can't lie to her.. Well,, good enough that after the confrontation.. I'm out of "the" mess.. Good thing she's open-minded.
