Was it hard to get over your first love?

Philippines
June 7, 2007 12:18am CST
how many days, months or years did it tokk you to get over with your past gf/bf?
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8 responses
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
Hmm....just a week.Ofcourse its hard to break up,But if you aint happy with him why would you go on?You must set a step and talk it out with him,if it still wont help i choose to break up.Now i am happy with my life.i enjoy the things again what i used to enjoy before.Being single is great for now.After a few weeks i totally forgot him.we just stayd as friends now.so its ok.so long he wont go over his limitations sometimes.coz that sucks.
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• Philippines
9 Jun 07
:) karen i really understand now how you feel , , , he really has a very bad temper and i noticed that he really sucks at times but i really can't blame him . . but like "whats his problem he really is bugging me sometimes so he just gets in my nerves"
@Jellytang (698)
• China
7 Jun 07
Yes.To me,it is really too hard.It spent me about six years to do that.
• Malaysia
7 Jun 07
its already two yrs over..but still feeling a bit pain when thinking of it..
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
OMG! how old r u now?!
@carryli (875)
• China
7 Jun 07
yes,for me,it is so difficult,i must need more than one year to forget my lover,and i should not meet him for a long time in order to forget him.
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
.. maybe while forgeting the person . . you never tried to replace him . . in that way forgeting him will be really easy
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
7 Jun 07
not really, probably took me over a month or so..don't get me wrong its just that I already fall out of love with my bf when we broke up
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
:) thats good i know somebody who frogets their ex's in just 2 months
• India
7 Jun 07
22 months i took to get over my first lov becoz he got married in front of my eyes.it was very hard to forget him and i still remeber those days tat used to spend together but i amnot able to share wid anyone just becoz its consider wrong to think abt a married man.........but somewhere i am happ becoz he is happy wid his wife and a child...tat has help to get over him very fast
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
thats 1 year and 10 months?! oh my! weeeellll,,
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
well, it took me 1 year to totally get over with the pain from my past.
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
did it really tok that long?! did you really love the guy?
• Guam
8 Jun 07
yes it was real hard for me at first but then i just got over it
@margaux (16)
• Singapore
8 Jun 07
for me it didnt take months or years to recover maybe few weeks.i keep myself busy with something or i go out with friends.