would u meet again ur ex bf/gf or first love?
By stilajet
@stilajet (20)
Malaysia
6 responses
@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
7 Jun 07
I would if that person is worthy to remember and catch up and provided that the breakup is a peaceful one but not an ugly one. I think it's good not to meet for around half a year to a year just so that we would get used to our lives and start a new one if we need to. Also it's a time to heal without being all emotional and thinking about him. I personally don't think meeting right after the breakup is a good thing because there is no time to calm down and get heal. I am not sure if it's possible but can you change to another church? It would be best to avoid him for awhile before meeting again. I think it would be good for you psychologically.
@steven318 (469)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 07
well ... i not very agree what you have mention there..
since already boke up but both still is friend right..
i dont like that couple that becouse love then become enemy after they have breake heart..
by the way.. should face it then everything will be fine..
at least can be best friend back..
if the starting realise after break will become enemy beter dont love anyone...
but have to depends the situation...
if the another half do big wrong thing to you then is the time to avoid to see him agin...
but you have your own point there too
@lonely_f16 (2146)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
It's better if you try to avoid meeting him because you might fall in love again and get hurt. It's inevitable. After all, he has been your first love and the way I see it, you're definitely falling in love again so it's better to avoid meeting him and have this cold shoulder. You shouldn't show to him you still have feelings for him.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
1 Nov 07
well i pray to god that there shouldnt be a day in my life where i will have to see her again i just dont even want to think about that moment
@TriciaW (2441)
• United States
7 Jun 07
I have an ex that we see each other all the time and we are great friends now. It wasn't easy at first because those old feelings come into play but once we got past the uncomfortable part it all worked out well. He is in a new relationship and so am I. I think now at times it is harder on the people we are with then it is on us. However they are both understanding and we assure them we are just friends. I guess the way I look at it is he and I have a lot of things that drew each other to us in the first place and why wouldn't I still care about him as a friend. We are adults and as adults we have to agree that what we had didn't work but that we still care about each other. So give it some time and who knows maybe there will be a time you two can be friends.
@jmespinosa82 (498)
• United States
7 Jun 07
Yeah it is better if you stay away from him. You may fall in love with him again and get hurt again.
@steven318 (469)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 07
well .. even have break .. also a friend becouse before that you all still a good friend later upgrade to coupe..
by the way.. if still can meet and can continue back then is still a good news..
maybe is the test during both of you to gather back..
but keep everything normal and original settle..
time prove everything
