will your first love be your last love ?
By nikko84111
@nikko84111 (368)
China
June 7, 2007 4:25am CST
will your first man be your last?will you finally get married and get together forever?
my friends tell me i can not get married with my first man, but i love him deeply, can you give me some suggestion how can i keep this relationship last forever?
12 responses
@claytot75 (20)
• United States
11 Jun 07
yes,my first love became my last,even if weve been through hardships and broken hearts,that didnt stopped us for loving one another...were now together with two kids and going strong..
@claytot75 (20)
• United States
11 Jun 07
trust and love for one another are the two great things needed for a relationship to grow..goodluck!!
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
actually not, my first love is not my husband, but my true love is my husband, what you feel today is actually what i've feel to my first love before but we are not lucky to in each other's arm till the end, i am married now and having my first love before was a good experienced to me, i learn a lot from him, am still so young that time and my feeling for him has fade already. By the way its up to you and your partner how to keep your relationship last, its the both of you involved in that and both of you have to work hard for that to be forever.
@jianhong (739)
• Singapore
21 Jun 07
It doesn't mean first love will not lead you to a happy marriage. My cousin married to her first love too. And now they have three child already and living happily. Most important, is to know and understand each other well. I guess a relationship that last more then five years will tell you is him the one you want to spend your life with. ;) i hope i will married to my first love. =)
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@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
11 Jun 07
I hop my first love is also my last...
But it seems that, tts not the case..
I have a couple of failed relationships and am with my fifth bf now...
We are very happy together now and i definitely hope he will be my last...
Well, to be frank to ur partner certainly helps and i guess being loyal and truthful counts...
NOthing beats a honest relationship..
N in tough times, support ur partner...
Not forgetting giving ur partner little surprises too...
=)
Hope all tt helps...
@nikko84111 (368)
• China
11 Jun 07
thanx for your response~~
i would like to talk to you here and share something with you~~
sometime we are fear of losing him ~~ we hope we can get together and love each other day after day ,for example, i am very busy these days,because i am going to be a graduate student and have lots of things to do. therefore i have no much of time to company with my boy~~ and i know he is upset,so i am unhappy bacause of him~ i am try to comfort him and make him happy~~
forgiving and trust are very important~~
wish you luck ~~and wish myself~~
@yaoyao918 (262)
• China
17 Jun 07
I am having my first love now! I hope that he can be my last love. I think as long as I have done everything I can do we will have a nice ending.
@nikko84111 (368)
• China
18 Jun 07
absolutely~
you are right~
i think we should keep the fire burning~
and i am trying now~
just sometime i will be fear of losing him~~
i think i just want to be with him forever~~
and i will try to solve the problem existed~~
@sassinqueen (710)
• United States
8 Jun 07
They don't know and you won't know either until you have the experience.
@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
As long as there is love. I don't believe in 'first love, dont end up together' or 'first love, ends up together forever'. You two can last up together as long as there is love.
@nikko84111 (368)
• China
8 Jun 07
yes,i believe that.thanx for your encourage~~it is really helpful.
@mamakatsarj (143)
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
i love a man... we broke up but still three years has passed i love him still...
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
3 Jul 07
No...My first love was in my high school days. He is my first BF, and I find him so nice and it did not last for long, but I know that I love him.
My husband is my last and true love...The feeling is quite different from previous ones...I would say that I truely love my husband so much.
@conglvtaohong (5)
• China
7 Jun 07
don't care too much about other's opinion. we should be true to ourselves,right? as long as you love him, that' enough.