I am disappointed with life

If you love some one dont get disppointed, leave him alone, if he is yours he will come back to you. do you know how many are loving you ?

Okay if he dont love you back then hes either A. blind B. gay or C. just hasnt realized how you like him! remember we are discussing men here! They cant read our mind so there for you almost have to smack them in the face with it!! HEY I LIKE YOU AND CARE FOR YOU!!!! but hey if after all that he still dont love you then girl there are a ton of fish in the sea!!!! I am 32 and trust and believe I found that lession the hard way!!! dont waste your time loving someone who dont love you!! you deserve a good man and happiness!!! You will have to love yourself enough to do what you need to do for you!!! :D You know your rock so go and find a good man I know you can!!!

Hi there.. Now that's a pretty difficult situation u r facing right now.. I have faced a similar situation myself as well, but that wasn't too heartening.. It was in class 11th when I had a crush on a girl who was in 12th std.. She didn't had any feelings for me then, and after completing her school, she just went abroad without even giving a single thot for me.. I just moved on, and I now with God's grace, I have pretty smooth love life...

Hi! have more patience who knows someday the one that you love give back the love that you have for him/her, but as the song said if you love someone set him free if he comes back then its yours. Dont be so feel disappointed with that just wait for another love thats truly save by God for you...

yes, and it was so painful... all i ca do was cry,wait for him to return and wait for him to love me back... it took me years to move on and here i am now totally over him. thik life has ato move on right?

yes i have loved somebody in my life who doesn't love me.. though it's painful i have to stop loving him because i won't do any good to me.. at first it was hard foe me not to think of him but as i meet different people my eyes were opened that he's not the only guy on earth that i'll love...wahahaha there are lots of fishes in the ocean.. ^_^

Yes friend! This is an acute feeling, that can only be more felt and less expressed. Try to love a relation, not only the person and take love as the most flexible concept in this ever-changing world. Then I think you may have a good solution to this disappointment of yours. It has been said that real love is blind and bold, always it is prepared for supreme sacrifice. If this lacks, then love looses its existence and potential. Please take care. Thanks.

of course, i do have that kind of experience..and it come to the point that we make love knowing that he don't have love for me, only me has a big feelings on him..he took advantage of my feelings and that makes me so depressed and i really cried because of that..i'm fool because of love and i promise to my self that i will not do that anymore, that i will not make a strong feeling to the person who doesn't love me..it's unfair..but i already moved on and i'm happy with my new bf..have a nice day..

Oh, yes! It's a very hard position to be in, and I'm sorry to hear that you are there. I have found that there's usually a good reason why the guy doesn't return your feelings-- and it's not that you are unlovable!!!! Sometimes the guy is really a jerk, but you (I) haven't seen that part of him yet. Sometimes the guy only wants what he can't have (idiot!). Sometimes it's just timing and in a few years everything will be different between you. It's so very seldom that "young love" works out well . . . One of the biggest challenges in life, for me anyway, is learning when to let go of things that aren't working. That includes jobs as well as people and living situations. I'd stop hanging around him, if you can. It will only make you sad and frustrated. Who knows? Perhaps there is someone who feels for you the way you feel for this guy!

Ohh..that's hurt. i can understand how you feel. But what more can you do. The best is continue to be friends. And let him know more about you. If he really fall for you one day, that's great. If not just let it go. I know that's hurt. There are still a lot of guy out there. ;) ... http://pay4effort.blogspot.com

Yes I have and it hurts so much but I have found that when I do get over this person they come running, I don't know why this is, I really don't . I can't say forget about it as I know it is not that easy but what I can say is in time the pain will get easier and you will find someone who can shower you with as much love and devotin as you have for them and when that time comes your current misrey will be a thing of the past.

Yeah..I've experienced it when I was in high school and in college. It is always hard for me because I cried every night. There was one time that I hit myself just to feel the pain physically because it's harder to feel the pain emotionally. Where you won't stop crying on your own. I havn't tell my friends about it neither my family. I just kept it to myself that's how secretive I am (or maybe because I'm a scorpio LOL) Until now I can't forget that boy whom I feel inlove. Every time I seen him together with his wife I feel pity to myself and just cried. How I wish I'm his wife. Oh well..I can't bring the past. I'm in the future now and it's time to face it though I'm struggling because he's my first love I think. I havn't felt this way before with my crushes but only to him. But I love my family now. It's just..it keeps on reminding me over and over again..or I may call it a nightmare? What do you think?

I feel the same thing right now.. He doesn't love me back too. :( Its sad.. both of you are together but you can never be together. Makes me feel so sad and blue thinking that he doesn't love me too. Why does it have to end like this, left behind just to cry.. :(

shitt happens..thats life...the way i see it...u r meant to hv sum1 else...u'll realise later...that mayb the 2 of u wer better off...sum1 better is yet to come... to talk spiritually(tough i'm not at all that inclined spritually)...everything happens 4 a reason...watever happens, happens 4 good....mayb this philosophy is real.. i hv been in a similar situation...even i was depressed..but m lookin forward to life...very alert not to fall in 4 ne1 hard..so i wont hv to fell those pain again....rather i njoy with my frnds(god bless them) today...i can say m happy....shes happy....lets see wats in store 4 me in the future...

is it a hard and fast rule tht the other person shud also luv... he must b having his own likes and dislike.!! he's not the end of the world.!! just try and move on.. it may b difficult but u need to take tht step.. in the future u'll find many boys!!!