Why do guys have be so Dumb?
By smilieluz13
@smilieluz13 (11)
United States
June 7, 2007 12:42pm CST
Why can't guys just tell you the truth, if they don't like you. Like for example if they do think your their type, why even talk to you. They should just say I am not interested. I resently met this guy, he was the waiter at this restarant I went to, he was very flirtous, which I understand its part of the jod to get good tips. The second time I went he was like could it be serindipdity? Any way I gave him my number he called I told him I wasn't looking for a relationship but a friend with benifits would be cool. He was down with that, of course he a man what man wouldn't be. We hung A few times. Then out of the blue he just won't return any of my phone calls. If he doesn't want to talk to me he just tell me that not keep me guessing. Guys have no problem telling if your fat, or that your hair is ugly, ect, but why can't they just be honest with you when it comes to being your friend? or not being your friend?
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@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
7 Jun 07
I would say from your post, that you are the one that hit on him,to me that would say right there that he was not interested, and may be he thought that you might be a good friend,but after getting to know you changed his mind. I do not know about you but i do give people a benefit of the doubt, and if it doesn't work, what is the big deal? I have found that there is no such thing as love at first sight, and as for friends with benefits, Who is getting the benefits, usually the person that requested it. Sorry a good relationship has to be based on mutual attraction and respect, as well as honor and trust. And it takes time and patience to get all these qualities in one person.
@smilieluz13 (11)
• United States
8 Jun 07
First of all you have must understood the posting. It is not about love at first sight, repect and honor. It about guys being man enough to be able to be honest not beat around the bush. As far as friends with benifits you must not understand it. I was not the one doing the flirting, If it wasn't for my friend telling him I thought he was nice looking He would never even know that I had the slightest attraction to him. As far as your comment about me hitting on him you are wrong but even if I did how is that an indication that he wasn't interested. women shouldn't have to wait to be flirted with first to make sure they believe the man is interested get real. The big deal is not where it works out, its just that he should be man enough to tell me hes not interested.
