More a simple question, rather than a discussion
By Cheekybones
@Cheekybones (9)
June 7, 2007 4:07pm CST
I have been thinking about a good discussion to post since I joined a few days ago, I had loads of ideas but I have too much other stuff flying round my head to put them across properly. I decided the solution would be to discuss some of the things that are bothering me, and I'm starting closest to home, but before I begin, a little research is needed.
Ladies first I think: Right girls, imagine picking your partners mobile telephone up and discovering the alert tones are on silent, do you ask him why? All I need to know for now, is whether or not you would pose the question, a one word answer will be good enough, but please leave me with a response!
Men next: What reasons could you possibly have for silent keytones and alerts, give me something more than the obvious please!?
I'm hoping I can leave this post to run for a day or so, then after reading your answers, I can maybe kill two birds with one stone, I'll see recent events in my own life a little clearer, and when I reveal all, we'll have something to discuss!
1 response
@vampoet (825)
• Singapore
7 Jun 07
I leave my handphone silent because I do not like the attention I get everytime I get a message or the public. Ladies should not be so sensitive if they discover their boyfriends' handphone on silent mode. Why would they want to pick up our handphones and ask us such a question anyway? I wouldn't ask a hypothetical gf such a question. We do not have to share EVERYTHING.
@Cheekybones (9)
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11 Jun 07
Thank you for being the only person who responded to my neurotic post, however in this case my paranoia was well founded. A couple of days after I left that post, I did the unthinkable and picked up my other halfs phone, and I read messages from someone who claimed to miss him, love him etc. I rang the number that had sent these messages and was informed by a female by the name of sarah, that my boyfriend was actually her boyfiend and you don't want to know the rest.
I confronted my man, asking why he would ruin our relationship of nearly four years, he answered me with his fist, and I now have a black eye amongst other injuries.
My point is, in this case my sensitivity was on the nail, and more than justified. I have never been prone to silly attacks of jealousy, all I had to go on was my instinct, and although the truth has been very painful, i'm glad I took my own advice, thanks anyway.
