once a cheater always a cheater....

Singapore
June 7, 2007 10:22pm CST
my girlfriends' boyfriend cheated on her, i told her to forget about him.for me once a cheater always a cheater...do you agree???
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6 responses
@Beauce (50)
• United States
8 Jun 07
yeah I agree.... a leopard doesn't change it's spots
• Singapore
8 Jun 07
yeah..a leopard will always be a leopard...
• United States
8 Jun 07
I agree to a point. I think if someone cheats on you and you take them back, they are more likely to cheat again than if you broke it off with them and they are dating someone else. That is to say, they are less likely to cheat on the next person. I think a lot depends on the circumstances, as well, but, yes some people will always cheat, no matter what the consequence.
• Singapore
8 Jun 07
yeah..you're right...tnx...
@selina0625 (1379)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
I agree with what you've advised your friend regarding the cheating boyfriend which is to forget about him because if ever she took him back there is a great possibility that he will cheat again. There are a lot of fish in the sea and sooner or later she will meet her man. The one who is destined to be hers forever. "Don't look for love, let Love find You".
@klystron635 (1519)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
I agree with you. Once a cheater will always be a cheater. I know that sounds harsh and it's like I don't believe in changes. But I think once you cheated on a relationship you can still do it. Eventhough you tried to change, the environment will still push you to do cheating.
• Singapore
8 Jun 07
it's true..once u've done it you will do it again and again...
@sisan76 (43)
• Singapore
8 Jun 07
To err is human I think thats the phrase. All of us do make mistakes in our lives but cheating does hurt relationships. It all depends on your girlfriend and whether she thinks that he will change or not. A leopard cannot change its spots but people do change.
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
I think you've got a point in your own opinion. But sometimes we also consider that this person might change. Try to give this person a second chance but it should be the last one. If ever he/she repeats the same bad story that's the time we should dump that person right away!