Are you a clingy partner?

@nandans (1160)
India
June 7, 2007 11:48pm CST
Are you relaxed and secure in your relationship? Do you give your partner space, or do you prefer to do everything as a couple?
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7 responses
@tonibabe (189)
5 May 08
well we both want to do things together and be together nearly all of the time we work together and love it. we do have our own time away from each other but we dont want to be away from each other for long! we are both happy tho!!
@tonibabe (189)
5 May 08
just too add im not clingy just love spending time together
@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 07
Hi nandans, in my early marriage, I was quite relaxed and secured in my relationship with my husband. But after he committed adultery, I dont have that feeling anymore. I constantly have questions in my mind whether he will commit another adultery or not. But I try to block all those negatives thought as much as I could now as I realised it is not good for my mental health in the long run.
@nandans (1160)
• India
8 Jun 07
Life is not that easy Ellie.. Its good that you are practical and accept thing positively..
@nielcdg (709)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
Last year when we got into the relationship first we were both a bit loose with each other, now we are a year together and we have reached the next step of our relationship. I dont think we are capable of not being clingy with each other, its like our day is not enough if we dont know what the other is doing. Believe me its like a punishment if I dont even know where she is or what she is doing. It is likewise I think because she calls a lot if Im busy and I cant sms her.
@Gorgeous24 (1091)
• United States
10 Jun 07
When I first got into my relationship with my man I wanted to be everywhere he went and do everything he did because I had trust issues BUT then I relaized by me being like that i was only pushing him away so I am very proud to say after 6 years of being with him I give him his space to do what he wants and he appreciates that more. There are alot of things we do as a couple but we need our space sometimes so we both will do our own thing. It works out good for both of us.
@Beauce (50)
• United States
8 Jun 07
Gosh I would simply go nuts if I did everything with my partner. I like my alone time. He goes off hunting every year for a week, and every weekend inbetween. I love that time. That is my time. I miss him when he's gone, but that's what makes it nice when we do things together. I like to ride on our harley with him, and go fishing, but we both take time for ourselves.
@nandans (1160)
• India
8 Jun 07
Its very nice to hear that you both are caring and having time for each other in busy schedule..
@SukiSmiles (1991)
• United States
6 May 08
I am very relaxed and secure in my relationship. That's how I know I married the right guy. I can trust him and I don't worry. I give my partner space and he gives me mine. Unfortunately, I think I need more space than he does. So we do things as a couple and separately too. In fact, next month we will be celebrating our 12 year anniversary.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
8 Jun 07
i am very very rleaxed and sercure in my relationship. i will give him all the space he needs. i am not at all the kind of person that has to be with my partner all the time. don't get me wrong, i love spending time togther, but i love my own personal time.