Which is the first in love ,feeling or money?

If young girl selected an old man because of money, i feel it is not because she finds money first in love, but just because she finds money first in life.I think she never love him . she love his money.But i must say both life are spoiled.Because later they will understand there are better things in life than money.There are many occassions where money cannot do anything, and a feeling of love and care can do a lot more.I will give more value to the personality and character and then a gentle look.As in the case of money , the mere attraction to the physical appearence is also dangerous.It has nothing to do with a better life.It is the character and the willingness to care which matters.If they are good then i will say he is richer than a man who sleep on a bed of money.Also i tell you, a young woman can love an old man, if she vlues his personality.they can even live better than a young couple.It depends on the angle with which we view life.If we are able to congrat others on their achievements , then we can find a man who can make achievements later.Believe a partner whom we can depend on bad times , also is the best friend in our good times. A good friend may not be the best life partner, but a good life partner is always the best friend.So money is nothing in selecting a good partner.

to be honest with you,my boyfriend attracts me first is him handsome face(at least I think so) and his humor.but the most important is,I have the feeling of like him.now,we love each other very much,you know,he does not have money,let it alone much money,but we just live very happily together.because we have love,then we have the strenth to work hard,to achieve our goal,to earn too much money.so in my opinion,feeling is the first in relationship.