how can you do,if the marry you want but not ratified by parents

@cosylvia (399)
China
June 8, 2007 12:30pm CST
if you want to marry to ur lover..but parens didnot ratify .how can you do ..stick to the happiness of yourself or on the parent's opinion
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3 responses
Shaunee
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
8 Jun 07
This is something I would have to think long abnd hard about before I jumped into it to fast.I would make sure I really love this person and that he or she loves me before I made it.
cosylvia
@cosylvia (399)
• China
13 Jul 07
yes,thanks for your pure-hearted reply,now i am clear what i will do
pallidyne
@pallidyne (858)
• United States
8 Jun 07
Part of being an adult is making your own decisions. And you are the one who lives with who you marry, not them. I'd go for it, and the parents would have to learn to deal. If every major decision you make has to be ratified by your parents, how can you ever make decisions when they are not there?
cosylvia
@cosylvia (399)
• China
13 Jul 07
thanks for your attention,i will deal with this trouble ,and i know what she did if good for me.
jwiz168
@jwiz168 (140)
• Philippines
13 Jul 07
For us chinese, that is a thing of the past , but we also consider that we can marry our own kind. Kinda stupid isn't it? im 33 and yet no wife. Im just not ready to tie the not especially if some traditions are compromised.